 I've been single for a while now also an ambivert  kinda hard to connect with new people. And i don mind I'm loving all the phases of my life but now i fear what if i don find the right guy and end up alone or what if i find a guy where i have to adjust all my life since arrange marriage is the only option for me now. I say this because i loved a guy and he shattered me into pieces, going though all the again is out of my capacity so yes to arrange marriage.
Also yes i know enjoy the process but im a kin gal who doesn't like waiting/suspens that makes me anxious..

I need your thoughts/suggestions on this 😊🙏

Heyy! This is surely helpful 😃 andd hoping you achieve what ever you desire 

Life

My ex has had a new boyfriend for 4 months now and still has all of our photos on Facebook and none of the new guy? 

We were together 7 years prior. 

Thoughts? 

Breakup

I only want to have feelings for Meredith and nobody else. I don’t want to have feelings for the faculty member. Am only OK with having a regular working relationship. I don’t want my feelings onto somebody else. I only want my feelings for Meredith only. What should I do? ￼

Stress

Whenever a proposal comes for me for marriage (arrange) I don't feel enough for them and reject them for this reason. I feel scared to not be the one what they are actually looking for. 

Relationships

How can I deal with strict parents.
I'm not saying that I'm asking them to be not strict.. I know they won't change now dude they've lived their half of life nobody can change them now..
But I want my work done smartly cause they are big problem for me...
They are so strict I can't go anywhere alone even they don't let me go neighbours house and I've done college without attending it cause they didn't let me go .. 
So I'm asking for others advice.. I've seen some people they handle their parents very well 

Family

heyyyy! how are youu itz been soo longgg .....

3am Thoughts

**SONDER** : the realisation that everyone has a story.
" Sometimes it makes me a little sad when I realise there are billions of people whom I will never get to know, and so many stories I will never get to hear. It's sad that these stories, including my own, will disappear once we die, and nobody will ever know all the experiences, fears, sorrows and joys I had accumulated over the years" -Sofia, *from a comment under a video where it explains this feeling*

Anxiety

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Boyfriend

It’s finally over. Years of a hidden romance. The comfortable fantasy of us has shattered. I am left with the hard reality of meeting myself again for the first time. 
Hello, again. The feeling is bittersweet. 
My dad always told me life is a series of hellos and goodbyes. 

Memories flood back and the pain sets in. 
Some moments happy, but they ironically make me sad now. 
I hear your laugh echoing in the hallway, my phone buzzing with your calls. Ghosts of what once was. 
Silence screams and I am left again, with my own solidarity. 
Time to rebuild. 
Choke it down, push the memories aside, become cold; distant. 
Don’t be recognizable. 
Don’t be who We were. 

But…. is that me? 
To disregard everything we built and shame our history ? 
What a terrible loss. 

I choose to dance to the memory of us. 
A dwindled flame- once roaring with energy and exploration. 
A beautiful dance still, to it’s last. 

The lights turn off, the curtains close.
The buzz of silence quickly surrounds, almost an applause. 

I’ll remember you this way. 

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