I’ve been on and off with this guy for like last 5 years. He was my first bf and all. Now he is moving to usa for btech. And i am here stressing about boards and jee and trying my best but still feeling like it’s not enough. 

Best of luck for your exams and the next time you post something, hope we are talking to an IITian or whatever it is you want to pursue 😛

Dude dude trust me, keep everything aside and pay attention to your JEE, because no relationship is worth destroying your future and the one which allows you to peacefully let you give your exams, is the one which would keep you satisfied.

Boyfriend

The guy whom I'm in love with since a year now is in love with my best friend. And the guy himself is no less than a best friend to me , because of which and for their happiness I need to pretend that I'm over him despite knowing how hopelessly I'm in love with him.


Depression

Hey
I don't know what to do help me😞
So actually what happened is, my bf and I were talking and he asked me who am I gonna date after him, I said I wouldn't be able to date if anything happens to our relationship (I'm just so damn attached to him) so then I asked him the same question and obviously did not expect another name in the answer. There is this girl he finds cute so he told me he would date her after me. This just broke me like wtf you thinking about stuff like that? 💔. Then I got extremely upset and he asked me if I got hurt and that I could tell him what's it that's bothering me. So I told him that I was hut because of that other girl thing. He told me that I was acting typical. I didn't know what to say so I said sorry for acting typical but I was deeply hurt inside😞. And then I told him that I'll talk to him later and he was like yeah go.
Someone please tell me did i really act typical? I'm confused and sad. 

Relationships

I confessed my feelings to a guy I liked for almost 7 years , over the text. I know he had 2 relationships but he told me that he also had feelings for me  and said he knew that i've liked  him since 4 years then  asked me go out with him I said no bcz I just wanted to confess and he also didn't seem serious them he told me to do his assignment he Was bringing that assignment part over and over. I was trying to confess properly and wanted to know more about how he felt blah blah so basically now he knows that I've liked him . but I don't think that he cares bcz after that he never responded to my texts about what I told him that day he was casual as usual over d massages but the thing that confuses me the most when I walk pass him he would watch obviously but he keep looking unless I'm outta sight but maintain his silence. he hears my voice, comes outta his home, keep moving in front me while talking over the phone u can easily tell by his ways he is trying to garb my attention , and .i don't know what is this? it's rejection or he is happy to have my attention and don't want to commit bcz in reality he doesn't feel the same  idk? may be he is just enjoying the idea that I was into him? help me understand 

Crush

I need an opinion on of what I did was wrong or right
So there's this guy we started talking and I got to know that he had liked me since like 2-3 years. I also start developing some feelings for him and we get into a relationship. I am someone who is very private and reserved and take a lot of time opening up. I don't usually trust people. We get into a relationship as I thought I was ready for one. It was going fine but I being who I am didn't really like to talk on calls and all basically did not get that involved and he was someone who liked getting involved. I liked living my own life a little and like not making him the only important part of my life. I enjoy my alone time a little too much I guess. I felt guilty as I wasn't able to give him what he liked. The part of getting involved and I don't even reply that fast. I then realised that being in a relationship comes with a lot of expectations and commitments and just having feelings is not enough so I told him this and asked him what he wanted and we decided on being friends knowing we have feelings but no commitments. Now I feel he is trying to distance himself and I don't really wanna lose him
So was what I did right?
And what can I do now?


I broke up with my boyfriend today. I asked him if he wants to continue or should we break up. I sent that msg in the hope of some reassurance (cause I was insecure about few things) but instead he broke up with me. And it kind of hurts obv..like I still have feelings for him and I don't really know how to move on.

for some context I am a trans male, my boyfriend has told that when he graduates college and gets settled in his life he wants to convert to Islam and, you cant be gay in that religion so when the time comes we wouldn't be able to be with each other anymore. and the only way for us to be together still is if I were to go back to being my biological gender. and it hurts so bad I thought he would be the one I would marry and have a family with but that cant happen anymore. I just don't want to be alone again..

Breakup

Feeling more over-emotional than usual 😟 I tend to be pretty sensitive, but lately I've been more prone to crying spells over silly things. I like to think I'm good at thinking logically, but I feel like my brain and gut don't work together well haha.

Something I'm concerned about is that I'm having more crying spells, specifically while on the phone with my partner (long distance). We've dated for a long time and finally met in person a couple months ago. Ever since I've travelled back home, I feel more emotionally unstable. Something about being held romantically for the first time ever only to have it taken away, sort of broke me I think. I don't want to become emotionally dependent by Any means, I know that's unhealthy for the both of us, but lately I cry so much and just want to be in his arms again. I'm totally doing it now, haha 😅 Luckily we have great communication, and he is patient and understanding. 

Relationship stuff aside, I also struggle terribly with compulsive skin picking. I'll basically injure myself for long stretches of time, it makes me feel better in the moment, but it's done a number on my self esteem. I'm on anxiety medication and acne treatment stuff, but it feels hopeless that I'll ever get better. It really feels like I pick my skin to stop myself from crying, it's a frustrating cycle.

I don't want people to worry too much about my sensitivity and crying so much, but at the same time I just really want help. I want to be nurtured and told it'll be okay. My stuffed animals and blankets are a huge help, but I just always feel like I need more comfort.

TL;DR, I have sudden bursts of crying and compulsive skin picking, and it makes me feel really hopeless and empty.

Any comments, feedback, or anything would mean so much. I'm feeling overwhelmed and I don't want to bother my friends. 😥 Thanks so much for reading! 💖

Anxiety

Hii :)
I was in a relationship with a boy for 4 months .It was good relationship.Then one day we got into fight then he blocked me for month .After that he unblocked me and texted me how I was doing and normal chat .First texted  him that we should stay friends as I don't want to loose him. Then he did not reply for 15 days.After that he said let's just friends then I changed my mind cause I realised I can't be friends with my ex and I told him again we broke up but it was mutual breakup .We both agreed that we want different thing in relationship and appologize to eachother and things ended .Then he texted me again after 10 days saying he wants to talk me over the phone ,I said cool because I think may be something urgent he wanted to tell but we talked normally he said he is missing me and wants to get back with me ,as he said he cares about me a lot and misses me and but he told we should talk to each other face to face when corona virus ended .I siad it might take one year for me to meet him then he replied he will wait.I don't know what to do I can't figure him out .Does he really love me or is he just attracted to me And one more thing as I want reliationship with future and his thought was different from mine that's y we ended things. But as he told he will wait for me should I keep my hopes up plz suggest me what should I do ? He is very confusing and I don't want to keep my hopes up .He just he will only talk to me face to face and till then we can't be in relationship.

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