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Anonymous

I’ve been in a long distance relationship before, and was Fortunate enough to meet her in person, but it was then that my issues started showing, I loved her with all my heart but didn’t trust her. That caused our beautiful relationship to end.

I am now in a similar situation, I fell in love with another woman, but today I realised I too don’t trust her… Or anyone, in fact. She wants to keep me but I’m too afraid to hurt her in the long term with my personal issues. She told me to find a friend I could trust to talk about this, but I have none. I trust none. So I decided to ask you, a complete stranger for your opinion, your take on things, perhaps even advice… I appreciate you for reading this. Thanks and be well.

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Khusro @khusro

You too. Tc.

Anonymous

Take care my friend…

Guilherme Lima @leymo

Thank you, friend. But do you have any advices for me? Because I’m honestly very divided. Part of me just wants to leave her to spare her from the suffering I might cause her… But at the same time, I love her very much.

Anonymous

What I believe is, we only hurt those whom we love. You also don’t want to hurt her, but you have some traits in yourself that might make you hurt her. I dont know if you have told her the complete truth about yourself & your past, but if you haven’t, I think you should, so that, she can understand your actions a bit & can be a bit cautious.

Guilherme Lima @leymo

Thank you a lot. She knows of my past and of my behaviour, in fact she called me out on it. It’s a cyclic thing, always been like this. She wants to help me change my ways, but I’m reluctant because I know it won’t be a smooth journey and I don’t want her to get hurt. It’s something I’d prefer to do alone, but she doesn’t believe I can do it alone. But I’ll think about your advice with care. Thank you so much again my friend.

Anonymous

If she knows about your past & wants to help you out, do take the help. I know, this issue will take time to be removed from you, but believe me, once this is taken out from you, you & your gf will have a very bright future. Don’t be reluctant to change your habits. It will take time to change them. Thank her for calling you out on these things.

Sanket @sanket

You should talk to yourself about the trust issues you have, find out what is stopping you from trusting you and what can help you to trust someone

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