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Anonymous

I’ve been having a tough time with my best friend lately. Me and him are the closest we’ve been to each other. But I’m very bad at handling relationships, be it any kind. And i have done my share of mistakes. And recently he told me he has an issue with me having 2 best friends. He said that this means something really important to him and he doesn’t like to share the title. So he wants out of being my best friend but we’ll be as close friends. I’m so majorly stressed.

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Anonymous

I completely understand him. But I can’t kick my other female best friend out. She has been there for me throughout. And I don’t know if trying to keep one Friend over the other us right.

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Sachin Delhi 6 @yess_sanju

Never should we ask someone to be in his/her friendship or asking them to make us thier friend or best friend

It’s your nature that they will like and love
And understand this, this is an real truth

No one has ever been in a relationship by asking or begging for it

Relationship is mutual and investment is from both sides, then only the returns can be fruitful

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Anonymous

I know that it can’t be forced. That’s where I am confused. Is it forcing this relationship to exist or am I not trying hard enough to make it work.

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Dante @varun24

I think you should have to accept the fact that…you two are not best friend anymore…he has already found someone who can replace you…it will be as hard as to change his mindset…having 2 bestfriend is not good as it create a jealousy…which will gonna hurt

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