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Anonymous

I’ve been feeling lost. I miss my family and can’t fly home to see them. I live with my husband abroad and we started off very much in love. Mostly I think I am in love but I am struggling in my life to overcome something. I am struggling with people not understanding my intentions. I sometimes get upset or stressed- I need to keep calm. Whenever I approach him calmly he is always allowed to be angry. So how come, girls get 1 treatment and boys get 1 treatment. How come he is allowed to get angry and frustrated but I have to walk around eggshells to maintain his mood?

I am struggling with this. I always have felt misunderstood in life. No matter what I say, most people don’t get me. I’m a sensitive person and I hate being in an anxious/aggressive situation so if someone takes that out then I do the same to protect myself. I am noticing I have so many things on my mind I want to fix but I’m never quite being supported or heard.

I’m going through a phase where I am learning that people will never understand or quite get you. I can either accept that or constantly shake their shoulders and force them to understand (never works).

I am going through a painful process of accepting this. Maybe people will never understand me, my perspective or my intentions. Maybe they will not see me and I have to accept it.

I just wish I wasn’t so lonely throughout this.

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@acp
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Hi, from what I can understand in your writing is that, you probably are a introvert ,sensitive and not much of a talkative person.
I can relate with few of the things that you are saying such as feeling misunderstood by others, and people judging you without understanding your perspective. TBH this is one of the big issue with us introverts that we are sensitive enough to understand others feeling but reserved enough to not express ourselves completely.
the problem you are facing is particularly trick because of the time constrains and emotional trauma that you are going through.
however, it is not impossible.
so i would suggest you to - β€œtry to express yourself not in a way that you yourself would understand the issue, rather try in the fashion that other person would understand it”.
2ndly it is true some groups have to suffer more in this unequal society than others. we surely can try to change that but it is not going to happen anytime soon. so better make good of what you have.
thanks for sharing.

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Anonymous
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Thank you for your support and kind words. I appreciate it! 😍

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