it’s sad that i can’t live like a normal person :( all my friends are having their first kisses, boyfriends, girlfriends, times. i’m not going to have anything like that
Heyy
What’s your age?
16
Even I’m 24, I’m at the same place where you are. Never been loved by anyone, not any relationship. It doesn’t matter how hard you try for this, it’s not gonna work until you are destined to have one. You are very young, work upon yourself and accept that some are destined to be alone, cause life is unfair.
Renata @renataismyname
It really doesn’t matter what age or gender you are! I promise you, you’ll get there. I remember feeling like that a certain point in my life. Then, I got tired of waiting for things to happen for me. So I got out there, with my heart in my hand and full of fear. That is when I finally gave my first kiss, and had my first date. I just decided I was tired of feeling like I had to wait for all those things to happen to me. And, allow me to let you in in a secret… all those things are highly overrated (but you won’t believe until you experience it). Promise life will get you to where you want to get. Be a kind and good person, let life take care of the rest. And, trust.
the thing is i can’t be in a relationship :( my body is ugly
Renata @renataismyname
I know it’s been months, but I saw this answer, and just couldn’t let it go unnoticed. Even people with ugly bodies have relationships.The story I told in my original response about getting out and looking for those things, I did that with a considerable obesity issue. And things DID actually happen for me. Years after that, I’ve been in a relationship with a guy who used to date models, f**ing models, and he CHOSE to be with me. And he actually likes the way I look. So, trust, don’t give up on anything, because things can happen to you… will happen to you.
And just FYI, what is someone’s garbage is another’s treasure. Sure, YOU may think your body is ugly, but there are people out there who not only won’t care what you look like, they’ll actually LOVE the way you look. If interest, just check if there if there is a porn fetish for whatever thing makes you feel your body is ugly (I assure you, there will be porn or sex fetish about it). Because there are people that are obsessed with the way your body looks. You are extremely young, and I know it’s condescending to say, but young people are not very smart relationship wise. Young people really care about looks and physical stuff. And yes, us “adults” still care somewhat about looks, but just enough so that we like our partners. It becomes somewhat irrelevant when you realize that there are so many other things that matter. And it is true what I said, all those “experiences” and “relationships” are somewhat overrated. You’lll find that a good friendship, or an afternoon with your parents, is worth a million times more than a crappy boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever gender of partner you choose.
Let me ask… you don’t have any girlfriend boyfriend…why? Because you are not trying…first start loving yourself then go outside and meet new people…yeah i know some people reject you and feeling of rejection sucks but guess what to find right people you need to socialize with every person that’s how you learn…hope this will help
hmm i have social anxiety but i’m working on it! :) but my body is awful i don’t think anyone would accept it
