That @notaqueen
It’s just yesterday thing!! Okay so let me tell you little background… Me and my boyfriend decided to go to watch movie at same day after last viva which was today… we also booked tickets online a day before yesterday… Time was of 12:40 on 11 may (today) but yesterday when we reached college we saw that another batch having viva of XYZ (the viva which our batch had today) was not even started at 11 and when it started… it took mini. Half hour for first 4 students… so my boyfriend got very angry and started to shout at me that because of you i booked tickets from my savings and now tomorrow we’ll not make it on time etc etc… he got so angry and frustration that he cancelled tickets… when i was saying hi him to be calm… what if tomorrow viva gets over soon we make on time and if we can’t reach then we’ll cancel tickets tomorrow… we’ll still get refund… but he was just out of anger and cancel tickets… and accidentally booked again on 10th may yesterday… so i thought let’s just not waste this and go… but we couldn’t enjoy movie as i was worried to go home soon because my parents were calling and i told them that I’ll get late but still i was very worried… when he was angry he verba’'y ab__ed me… infront of students… near staff room and because of this too i was upset watching movie…
Now today… it happened exactly what i said… today our viva got over before 12 and we both were free at 12… if he just had little patience then his money don’t get wasted… but today he blame all on me 😌
He is not a right person to be with. He doesn’t respect you which is concerning and I think you need to consider your relationship again.
That @notaqueen
I know I’m in toxic relationship but the thing is I’m very introvert and can’t express what i want to… and on other side he’s manipulating and know how to switch conversation and make me feel guilty so i just don’t break up with him.
You need to stand up for yourself. You have to do it at one point and also it is not good for your own mental health. Even if he is abusive you can always seek help from others or your friends. I really hope you will come out this toxic relationship as soon as possible for your own good and please don’t listen any of his disrepecting bullshits you should know you worth everything but him.
That @notaqueen
He kept me in very bad position where i lost all my friends because he using his mind games make all my friends… including girls… believe that I’m the one with problems… and because of my old friend circle which included my ex boyfriend and some of his friends… he created a bad image of me like I’m the girl who wants boys around them all time. It’s so suffocating to even go to college for just 2-3 hour for exam… that’s why i avoid going college too everyone look at me like I’m a b;/(h
I am so sorry that you have to go through this but I still suggest you to connect with your friends and tell them your side of story and make them believe in you and still they are not helping you so you will know that they don’t worth it. But please connect to the people even with your siblings. Our siblings are our main support and you should know it do something before it becomes worse. I heard such situation and it had became too much for the girl that she had to go on the social media.
That @notaqueen
And what she did on social media? Expose his boyfriend nature or get help ?
I really really want you to cut all the ties with such person . He is not good for you and you worth so much more girl please do something before you wil shattered into the peices.
She did and her friend really supported her and apologized to her. But she did this when her boyfriend started phisical abuses her and it was worsed.
That @notaqueen
I just can’t leave him easily… that’s the problem… sometimes i think if i was also like other girls… like little extrovert then there would be no problem… if i didn’t get trapped in his manipulation then it would not got this worst.
That @notaqueen
Then i think I’m also in same condition… the only difference is that I’m not on any social media 🙃 and can’t even make one
It still will . You can change you but not him. And being you don’t give him right to verbally abuse you infront of everyone or in alone. He knew how you are when he get together with you so that’s not the cause.
You don’t have to I also don’t think it is a good idea as her boyfriend framed her and try to blackmail her with the personal pictures.
That @notaqueen
Yes you are partially right… he did blackmail me to show photos to my parents when he’s angry… and he’s going to Canada next year so it’s just matter of one year i don’t know how to handle him
