Its getting all werid right now,
I have a relationship with my bf since 2 year bt due to corona i only spend time with him like 6-7 months, now i can feel he is avoided my or not care about me bt sometimes i think that its just in my head. I tried many times to clear this things up bt he just take it all lightly. Now I’m getting attached with my classmate and i know he love me madly. He support me during my breakdown or whenever i argue with my bf, he listen to me careful and try to solve things. Sometimes i forget i have bf and i talk with him out of limit it makes me happy at that time bt later it feel like I’m doing wrong thing.
Am i doing right thing ? Started having love kinda feels for another when i already have bf ?
Mina @nepenthe
Hi there!
They say a great relationship has a great communication. Try to talk to your boyfriend, and maybe you guys can solve stuff like that. But if you see he is avoiding you further, maybe you should take a break, and try to reach him when he seems ready.
It is completely ok that you feel this way towards your classmate. People are tend to be attracted to ones that seem to deeply care for them. I would recommend opening up to your friend if that is what you are comfortable with, and explain him the situation. If he really likes you, I would think he would understand.
But at the end of the day, it is your life, so try to focus on what your heart and mind both believe in.
Wishing you lots of love with your relationships💕
Thanks for your helpful advice… i really liked it
There is nothing right and wrong in this world its all about prospective.
and if you are falling for some one else who is not your boyfriend. then it was not love for your bf at first place . it was infatuation and that’s all fine. many people confused love with infatuations, Infatuations can be physical and mental.
and as i said if you are falling for someone else, so its better to communicate as soon as possible.