Its frustrating jb grandparents hmko iss baat pr mazboor krde ki hmko unhi se nafrat hojaye aaj jb mere dada ji ne bola ki t useless ho tumhare marks nii aate tm try nii krte aur ye saara glti tumhare maa baap ka aur ye bolkr phone phek diya i mean kyu mtlb mere sath jb bura hota tha tb vo nii aate ab unko kta farak prta and also my dadi is double face she hates me cause i am girl i remember the day jb mummy ko bolte hue suna tha ki mere born pr sbse gussa meri dadi thi unhone bola tha paise waste hogye kyuki ldki hui h aaj phir isi ldki se itna expectation kyu h i just hate them hr wakt mujhe mere cousins se compare krnege jo mere se 10 saal bade h i just hate them aaj undono ke waajah se mere parents ko sunna pada its like I AM LOOSER MAI HI INSB KI WAJAH HUE aisa lg rha h sbkuch ktm hogya h ๐๐๐
Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...
hey! I dont know mera yeh comment tumhe kitni help karega, but i hope ki kuch na kuch help zaroor karein.
Firstly, tumhe jiss field me career banana hain vahi banao. Apne parents ke saath communicate karo, tumhein sabse zyada tumhari mummy samjhengi unse kuch mat chupao, jo feel ho jaisa bhi share karo. try karo ki apne dada- dadi k saamne zyada na jao. jitna zyada unhe dikhogi voh utna criticise karenge.
tum jo bhi krri ho voh isisliye h qki you want to do something goog in life jisse tum aur tumhare parents khush rahe.
negative logo se and thoughts se door raho.
lastly, try meditation, it will help you feel calm.
Take Care.
literally i am just 16 year old girl bt dundono ko ye samj niii aata h
Aakanksha @sadsoul0happyfa...
grandparents are always like thisโฆ
I have been in same situation when i was of 10 years or soโฆ
All i will say is, just try to focus on positive things.
Ye ek soch hai jisse hum sab lad rahe h. Lekin jo bade hai, maa baap, saas sasur ya grandparents, unki soch shayad nahi badal paaye. But aage koi aur aisa na feel kare ye hum kr skte hai. Duniya me lakho ladkiya hai jin hone aisa mukaam paya h jo kisi ladke ne bhi na socha ho. Toh jab aisa feel karo ki ye mere saath kya kar rahe hai, tab socho ki main khud ke saath kya karna chahti hu. Kya main bhi in logo ki tarah khud ko torture karna chahti hu? Ya in sab ki soch chod khud ko khush rakhna chahti hu.
Aane wali aur bahut ladkiyo k liye misaal banna h tujhe, himmat rakh.
Thanks but yeah they are worst grandparents
Sanjay @knowshowitfeelslik...
Hey donโt feel like that
Sorry to say but all our grandparents are old tradition and have a cheap old mindset.
Just do your best and make you perents proud.
Donโt listen to them who speaks bad about you ,but also donโt disrespect them cause at last theyโre you grandparents.
Or donโt feel sad about yourself, they will understand.
And never feel that you parents also thinks same parents love us so much regardless of genderโฆ
Maybe this helps :)
