It’s Dean office story again. Just want to vent.
I met her at office on 23 Dec and we had non stop conversation for about 3 hours. Usually I don’t like to talk with anyone after 5-10 minutes of conversation but there was something else with her as time flee and I didn’t realize.
I lost my both parents in covid and in 1.5 years of span, i never felt such a sweet connection with a stranger. Her mother is in dialysis and I felt her pain bcoz I aslo went through similar conditions.
She’s 5 years elder then me but it didn’t felt like any age gap.
I sent her email 30 hours ago but didn’t get any response. I think she’s already in relationship and even if she’s not we have lot of society bars like age gap and caste. So I decided not to chase her.
Whatever it is, I can’t stop thinking about her. It might go after some days. Miss her.
Hope she replies.
And so sorry to hear about your parents.
Bless you buddy.
Thanx buddy. I don’t think she will reply now. If she’s had the same feelings as I have then it’s hard to resist for 30 hours ig.
luna_de_leon @luna_de_leon
Hello, try to send her a message in another social media, tell everything, so you will know if she loves you in the same way. I hope you can contact her! Cheering for you
She’s not in the social media. No Facebook, no insta, no Twitter.
She’s only in linkedin. And I think that is more professional than our email system.
What if you send her a message on LinkedIn telling you need to talk to her …? You could take a coffe together and catch up then you tell her how you feel
Don’t do anything stupid on LinkedIn else it will ruin your hard earned image. Just connect and say thanks for connecting and add few lines that fascinates you about her research but don’t try to be flirty. Btw she’ll reply to your mail but hope it’s not any uni mail add else you need to be careful. Good luck dude good things take time.
I agree, but a private message telling he needs to talk to her won’t harm anyone
Ofcourse sending a private message doesn’t harm. But it depicts that you don’t know how to maintain professional ethics. It all depends on how you approach on LinkedIn.
Thanks buddy, but I will not make any move now. I will wait for her response in mail. She must have seen it because we all students check it frequently.
If she doesn’t respond than I am confused weather she wants to see me again or not.
Because as I said I am facing lot of problems after my parents demise, and she’s also facing because of her mother’s dialysis.
So why she will choose a men with lot of problems if she’s getting fancy mens without problems.
Shelly_Kutrapal... @sheldan_cooper
Don’t reply for next 24 hrs, she might have read the mail but you don’t know what situation she’s going from. Let her reply, generally she’ll since she knows that it’ll be an insult not to reply to the mail (social media is different). Ik what you’re feeling now but remember don’t degrade yourself based on what others think else that puts a bad image of yours in society.
If you dont get any response from her, this is your sign to step back and wait, maybe she just need a time to think about it, or a time to heal… what will be, will be. Sorry if was rude with my advice.
Yeah that’s true bro. I will not be making any move untill she responds.
