It’s been a while since a thing is bothering me… Let me tell you the story of my first love. After completing the story, help me with my problem!!! Please!!! My first love was a guy a year older then me. He and me, we both live in the same area. When I first met him he was such a nice guy but gradually he became worse. Now even his friends don’t like him. He became weirdly bad. I haven’t talked with him properly ever. Idk maybe it’s because I’m way too shy to talk with him. He used to tease me a lot. Sometime tries to pick a fight with me too, even tho we haven’t had a proper conversation yet. Oh! I think I forgot to tell you that I’m a tomboy. I have a lot of guy friends. Normally I just hung out with them. So I don’t really have any problem with interacting with a guy. But i don’t know why I can’t talk with him without stuttering. He’s a multi- talented guy. Good at studies, play sports too and is an good artist. It’s been 7 years since I’ve liked him. Last year I confessed it to some of my good friend. One of them may have told him. Because one of his friends told me that he called me “Slut”. I don’t really know, why he called me that. Maybe he knows that I like him. For some strange reason I can’t bring myself to hate him for that. I talked about this with my cousin. She told me that I should stop liking him if I respect myself. Now I don’t know, if I should like a guy like him anymore. (I haven’t done anything to be called a slut honestly) but I don’t think I can stop loving him. No matter what I do I keep thinking about him. I tried to be in a relationship with other guys too. But even after being with them. My heart only thinks about him. What should I do?
Shalin Gupta @shalin99
Maybe that’s how your mentality works, you know like you’re too much into that guy that you don’t wanna acknowledge how wrong he is.
Can’t blame you for that, but it’s only okay if he does that things for one or two times but what he keeps doing this to you? Will you still be okay with that?
I honestly don’t know what would be right advice for you but i atleast do know that you should give your priorities to yourself.
Respect >>>>> love or attraction.
But if the guy is ready to change his behaviour then it’s okay i guess.
See i gave you two opinions which makes me worst advisor 😂 but i think you’re capable of knowing what you should do.
Hehe i did very long post. Well enjoy it😂
