It’s been a month since she left me… we have been together for over 2 years we have an apartment together and cats and built a home. 4 months ago she started a new job and met someone there she cheated on me by kissing this person and texting them and then tells me that she wasn’t in the relationship for months anymore. She broke me. Since the breakup I can’t sleep or eat properly. I still want her back and want to fix everything cause she was great all in all I love her for the things that she has done right instead of hating her for the one thing she has done wrong. She still doesn’t want to come back and now I have to restart my life alone. I can’t handle this anymore and I want to move on but I feel stuck here. And most of this is my fault and I can’t stop blaming myself.
Your fault how? I don’t think and nobody will ever think that it’s your fault… Do the chores as you used to do, there’s no way to move on fastly… But yes, you have to accept anyhow the truth that she cheated on you. And even if she come into your life, I suggest you not to accept her anymore. Dude the person who can cheat one time, can cheat you 100 times. You can’t move on… Just keep doing what you regularly used to do… Exercise, meditate, meet new people (offline)… These are the new things but it might help you…
I am conflicted with our apartment cause she wants it and when I tell her that she left she blows up in flames and I hate arguing through out our relationship I never would like fighting would always do what I can to avoid it or stop it quickly but now I want her to be happy and I still want to give her everything
I don’t think it was your fault. I have been there and it was not healthy at all. We will never look better for someone who doesn’t want us anymore, no matter how much we try. It’s normal to think all of this was your fault since you’re still in shock. But things will get better, I promise. Just take a moment to pause from relationships and get to know you better. Surround yourself with your family and those who really care for you. And you will feel better as time goes by. Take care.
I am struggling to pick up my old routine or my old hobby’s I spend my days drinking or taking something to help me to sleep at night or I just spend the night watching tv with no will to do anything else and it hurts even more seeing her out there just enjoying herself
It was hard at the beginning but let try something healthier for you to sleep. I’m not in any good position to give great advices about this honestly but I’ve been through one. What I did was just having something to work on continuously to the point I was too tired to think about him. Hope this helps. Best regards.
kabir ghangas @kabir_ghang...
hey, things will be fine only if you have the right intention…
