It’s been 9 years in relationship with him. We had so much of fights, arguments, misunderstandings etc but lots of love between us helps forget all those . In all these 9 years past three years are just amazing . We have come so much close to each other that even a small silence makes our day worse . He went on a small vacation kind of thing . From then situations between us changed a lot . Now he don’t even call me for a week and more . Whenever I call there is an explanation for sure . So I just stopped calling . I never spoke to any of my friends any time about our relationship things . We are a great couple for everyone all time. Now I don’t wanna discuss all these with them and make their trust on love break . I am feeling so lonely and frustrated.
Hey, I know you are not in the right place to think about this now, but just let your mind wander into the 9 years you have had with him ? Now if you feel like giving up, remember why did you hold on for 9 years ? It’s indeed a very long time… and the thing about loneliness, I would suggest you to please invest your time in something you love to do, we can’t make our whole world about just one person, there may be times when we have to be ourselves too, right ? So please just take this loneliness as a positive sign that you have got to do something productive and healthy for your mind. And just go and give him a call , let him know that you are there for him despite of all the differences that both of you have had. We can’t force things onto people but we can surely make them feel our love for them. So do that and if things are meant to be, they will!
Thanks for valuable words . But I have a question …
A person who came this long ,is now thinking about spending 50years of future with him. Doesn’t it sound like some meaningful pain …?
I am asking this question just to know if someone thinks as me or I am the only one stupid.
