It’s been 4 years of being in a relationship and since last one year we’re in long distance.
I’m completely in love with this person but now I feel that he’s getting irritated by me. He was so caring and honest buy now he keeps secrets and hide things. From the past 5 days I’m crying because we are having fights but he is just okay with this. He says do what ever you want to do
If you want to stay you can and if you want to leave that is also okay. I can’t leave him. I’m so attached that I’m scared that everything will end. I don’t want to lose him.
Better talk to him of your feelings … Do not assume something… Confrontation is the best way to untangle the knots in a relationship
We are living in a world of technology where leaving or getting into a relationship is very easy but maintaining it is very tough as other options are always available. I understand what you are going through. But what has to stay will stay. Don’t work so hard for something that even if for a minute you don’t work at it it crashes. It’s not worth it. It’s tiring and eventually what has to happen will happen
U are a beautiful soul. It jus might be a phase and won’t keep long … love yourself and keep that your priority… I know he is important but give him space and he will come back to you … You wouldn’t be losing the person u love . When he sees you being happy and at your very best he will join u
So… I’m going through something similar. Trust me i know how this feels. But I’m going to let you in on a secret. This is kind of working for me … and you might wanna try this. Write down everything you feel about the person somewhere. Keep writing till you feel you’re doing bettter. It’s been a week since i let go of the person i was dating for 3 years. And you know there’s going to come a time when you’ll have your power back. For me … it turned out that i wasnt scared of losing him… i was scared i had lost my power. It’s time to get it back girl! (Or boy).
