Itโs been 3 years since my breakup and iโm still not able to overcome his thoughts
I tried to overcome with the feelings but i guess I am still failing ,he still comes in my dreams ,I mean really bro why! why !
Please someone give me solution
Mayank @true_who
First try not to overthink things.
Seriously I try so hard not to think
Mayank @true_who
U try but can U succeed in it?
Nope thatโs the problem
Mayank @true_who
U know the problem, then try not to repeat it. Keep urself busy nd when ur alone donโt do that thing. Keep urself always in talks with ur closed ones
Honestly sometimes the more we tell ourselves not to overthink, the more we thinkโฆ
Mayank @true_who
I agree. But if think then talk to others, share things its necessary
Mayank @true_who
I U wanna share anything U can connect with me
Apparently i donโt hv hv that feature in this app
I donno i hv reached to a stage talking to ppl also makes me irritable
So i speak less now
Mayank @true_who
U hv it. Just tap the symbol beside my name
Mayank @true_who
Ya it happens. Talk with only those who cares U.
Wonโt it be a burden to them?
They will get saturated right!
Mayank @true_who
Just remember one thing that never let ur emotions destroy urself. Itโs worst
Mayank @true_who
No I donโt think it will be a burden. Ya it perhaps makes them saturated but towards U,
Arey i am strong yaar
But kabhi kabhi I donno i get so depressed
Nobody has time now
They call me like once in 6 months or on birthday
Mayank @true_who
Becoz U have controlled ur emotions and overthought about it.Sometimes a sudden spark makes them burst out nd U get depressed
Mayank @true_who
A single person?
I am a introvert, i donโt feel comfortable sharing my personal with all my frnds
So kinda hv 2 -3 frnds with whom I share a lot
N now they r busy in their life
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
The thing is I had so much anger and hatred towards him after him after he dumped for other
But i never got to show it on him , it all got suppressed, n now i donno on whom to show that anger frustration
Mayank @true_who
Hmm i can feel U. U can share with me if ur comfortable
Mayank @true_who
If U get a chance to confront him, then do it.
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
He is fucking coward he blocked me everywhere
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
He said so many shitty reasons while breaking up with me like
I am higher caste than him
He said he feels like he cheating on his dad
Like this so many silly silly reasons he said
And he was like u will be the last person i loved and all drama he did
Just 2 months after the breakup he got committed with his frnd , I mean literally bro , was i meant nothing to him?? N that bitch was my frnd too
Mayank @true_who
Canโt U meet him in person?
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
I donno if i will be able to handle it
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
He gave me so many silly reasons while breaking up with me like
U r of higher caste , n u r doing higher degree than me , and he said he feels like he is cheating his dad
euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa
So many silly reasons like this he gave me
And he said u will be the last person i love and all drama he did
Just 2 months after he got into a relationship with his classmate, n i knew her too
Worst part is i was so dumb they both were just frnds
I taught them during exams also
N then they both got into relationship
Mayank @true_who
Ohh. Look if meet him then donโt think much that if U will handle it or not. Express everything to him whatโs inside U nd just go
Mayank @true_who
Otherwise it will very hard for U to move on nd need more time to heal
Mayank @true_who
Donโt think abt him now. Just try to move on then. Sometimes people donโt value us.
Mayank @true_who
Iโm adding U in case U find it difficult
Priya,s its me @priyasitsm...
Just tell your inner self that he donโt deserve youโฆ everytime you thought of him it just proves what he did was right when it wasnโtโฆyour tears arenโt worth for himโฆI faced same like thisโฆwe havenโt been into serious relationship but still we are like that one day he said letโs just be like friends because my family has cast problems and my father wonโt accept me marrying another cast girl when he was the one who said at first when we meet that Iโll fight with my family if it needs to be with youโฆit took me so much time to get over of himโฆthe most disgusting thing is as Iโm broad minded one he used to tell me even if he see any girl or like herโฆhe even made me to talk and console a girl whom he liked and fought with after our breakupโฆthat day it broke my heart more and I confirm myself that he donโt deserve meโฆnow he was asking me after 4 years to come back to him and I said get lostโฆjust donโt throw yourself into the situations again where you are getting hurtโฆlove yourself ๐Iโll be with you in this and help you ๐
I want to be strong
But i am very fragile with my feelings ๐ฅบ
same broooo๐๐
I know itโs hard to overcome from the past โฆyou try to do something that you never did โฆ maybe like something you want to learn or try new recipe or you can try new skillsโฆthe more you try to think about yourself the more you will realise that the past was not the same as the present and you would feel happy about itโฆ๐๐
ahmed kamran @im_high
Try to keep yourself busy and dont think about him at all. Whenever any of his thought comes in your mind try to divert yourself. Go for cooking, take shower, watch netflix, etc
It will take time but you might stop overthinking this way
Yeahh so i am doing medicine
The toughest choice i made