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Itโ€™s been 3 years since my breakup and iโ€™m still not able to overcome his thoughts
I tried to overcome with the feelings but i guess I am still failing ,he still comes in my dreams ,I mean really bro why! why !
Please someone give me solution

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Mayank @true_who

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First try not to overthink things.

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Anonymous
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Seriously I try so hard not to think

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Mayank @true_who

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U try but can U succeed in it?

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Anonymous
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Nope thatโ€™s the problem

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Mayank @true_who

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U know the problem, then try not to repeat it. Keep urself busy nd when ur alone donโ€™t do that thing. Keep urself always in talks with ur closed ones

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Anonymous
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Honestly sometimes the more we tell ourselves not to overthink, the more we thinkโ€ฆ

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Mayank @true_who

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I agree. But if think then talk to others, share things its necessary

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Mayank @true_who

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I U wanna share anything U can connect with me

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Anonymous
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Apparently i donโ€™t hv hv that feature in this app

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Anonymous
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I donno i hv reached to a stage talking to ppl also makes me irritable
So i speak less now

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Mayank @true_who

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U hv it. Just tap the symbol beside my name

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Mayank @true_who

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Ya it happens. Talk with only those who cares U.

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Anonymous
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Wonโ€™t it be a burden to them?
They will get saturated right!

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Mayank @true_who

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Just remember one thing that never let ur emotions destroy urself. Itโ€™s worst

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Mayank @true_who

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No I donโ€™t think it will be a burden. Ya it perhaps makes them saturated but towards U,

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Anonymous
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Arey i am strong yaar
But kabhi kabhi I donno i get so depressed

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Anonymous
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Nobody has time now
They call me like once in 6 months or on birthday

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Mayank @true_who

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Becoz U have controlled ur emotions and overthought about it.Sometimes a sudden spark makes them burst out nd U get depressed

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Mayank @true_who

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A single person?

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Anonymous
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I am a introvert, i donโ€™t feel comfortable sharing my personal with all my frnds
So kinda hv 2 -3 frnds with whom I share a lot
N now they r busy in their life

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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The thing is I had so much anger and hatred towards him after him after he dumped for other
But i never got to show it on him , it all got suppressed, n now i donno on whom to show that anger frustration

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Mayank @true_who

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Hmm i can feel U. U can share with me if ur comfortable

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Mayank @true_who

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If U get a chance to confront him, then do it.

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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He is fucking coward he blocked me everywhere

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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He said so many shitty reasons while breaking up with me like
I am higher caste than him
He said he feels like he cheating on his dad
Like this so many silly silly reasons he said
And he was like u will be the last person i loved and all drama he did
Just 2 months after the breakup he got committed with his frnd , I mean literally bro , was i meant nothing to him?? N that bitch was my frnd too

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Mayank @true_who

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Canโ€™t U meet him in person?

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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I donno if i will be able to handle it

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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He gave me so many silly reasons while breaking up with me like
U r of higher caste , n u r doing higher degree than me , and he said he feels like he is cheating his dad

euphoriaaaa @euphoriaaaa

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So many silly reasons like this he gave me
And he said u will be the last person i love and all drama he did
Just 2 months after he got into a relationship with his classmate, n i knew her too
Worst part is i was so dumb they both were just frnds
I taught them during exams also
N then they both got into relationship

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Mayank @true_who

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Ohh. Look if meet him then donโ€™t think much that if U will handle it or not. Express everything to him whatโ€™s inside U nd just go

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Mayank @true_who

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Otherwise it will very hard for U to move on nd need more time to heal

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Mayank @true_who

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Donโ€™t think abt him now. Just try to move on then. Sometimes people donโ€™t value us.

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Mayank @true_who

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Iโ€™m adding U in case U find it difficult

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Priya,s its me @priyasitsm...

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Just tell your inner self that he donโ€™t deserve youโ€ฆ everytime you thought of him it just proves what he did was right when it wasnโ€™tโ€ฆyour tears arenโ€™t worth for himโ€ฆI faced same like thisโ€ฆwe havenโ€™t been into serious relationship but still we are like that one day he said letโ€™s just be like friends because my family has cast problems and my father wonโ€™t accept me marrying another cast girl when he was the one who said at first when we meet that Iโ€™ll fight with my family if it needs to be with youโ€ฆit took me so much time to get over of himโ€ฆthe most disgusting thing is as Iโ€™m broad minded one he used to tell me even if he see any girl or like herโ€ฆhe even made me to talk and console a girl whom he liked and fought with after our breakupโ€ฆthat day it broke my heart more and I confirm myself that he donโ€™t deserve meโ€ฆnow he was asking me after 4 years to come back to him and I said get lostโ€ฆjust donโ€™t throw yourself into the situations again where you are getting hurtโ€ฆlove yourself ๐Ÿ’œIโ€™ll be with you in this and help you ๐Ÿ˜‡

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Anonymous
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I want to be strong
But i am very fragile with my feelings ๐Ÿฅบ

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Anonymous
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same broooo๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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Anonymous
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I know itโ€™s hard to overcome from the past โ€ฆyou try to do something that you never did โ€ฆ maybe like something you want to learn or try new recipe or you can try new skillsโ€ฆthe more you try to think about yourself the more you will realise that the past was not the same as the present and you would feel happy about itโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‡

ahmed kamran @im_high

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Try to keep yourself busy and dont think about him at all. Whenever any of his thought comes in your mind try to divert yourself. Go for cooking, take shower, watch netflix, etc

It will take time but you might stop overthinking this way

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Anonymous
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Yeahh so i am doing medicine
The toughest choice i made

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