Is it possible for me to forgive someone who loves me but cheated on me?
Don’t get back together with him. You deserve someone who’s loyal and can be true to you and the relationship. If you need closure and forgiving him can help you get there then sure go ahead.
However imo if you forgive them, it’s like a green light to continue cheating because they know a few apologies or whatever are enough to win you back.
He’s been apologizing and trying to make it up to me for a month now ever since he confessed to cheating :( idk what to do with him. I love him but it’s so hard…. I keep getting triggered every time i remember that he cheated. Even if he wasn’t thinking and even if it was “just” emotional cheating, i don’t know
Well if you do want to get back I won’t stop you. But as you said you keep getting triggered every time you think about it, maybe it’s too soon? Try distancing yourself from him for some time so that it gives both of you a chance to move past it and think about it with a clear mind. Don’t take any decisions if you’re sad or lonely
Forgiving is part of the healing process.
Unless you forgive you’ll never truly get over the pain that person caused. Forgive not for them but for yourself. This does not mean go tell them you forgave them and get back together. I made the mistake of taking them back and the only thing it does is make them feel entitled and feeling as if they can abuse you even more using you as a punching bag. Dont go back is what i recommend break all contact dont even say its over just ghost them
I think you should forgive him not for him but yourself. Give yourself peaceful life.
You don’t need to suffer more.
none genuinely loves you if they cheated on you , if they loved you they wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
I don’t think it happens by mistake, their cheating…they always had a choice not to cheat…you never cheated on him, you loved him too right…
