Ans Lee @leeanas
Is it okay to live with your friend (I’m travelling and he offers to stay at his place but he is not going to be there all the time) if u both interested in each other? For how long should I stay? I’m virgin girl. I just wonder if it’s morally okay? I doubt if it is… Cause either I live alone there and he sometimes stays with me or with my brother (I don’t want)?
Don’t. It’s not normal. If you know what it can lead to and you’re okay with the fact then go ahead.
Jay_Kay @pranayjay
Morality differs from person to person. What’s important is to imagine a scenario where things go horribly and is that acceptable to you?
The way you specified being a ‘virgin’ I think it won’t be okay for you. I believe your friend must be a great guy, but young men often don’t think about the outcomes of their actions. Especially if their hormones take over their mind. It’s better to have boundaries than regrets. Modern world likes to pretend sex has no consequences but that’s simply not true.
Ans Lee @leeanas
But what if I’m interested in sim sexually as well? Would it be wrong? But I guess it’s just a fantasy. I won’t be able to do it in real life…
Jay_Kay @pranayjay
Nothing wrong with being attracted to someone. All I’m saying is actions have consequences. Sex complicates relationships, they take away the magic of joyful coexistence. We expose our vulnerability during intimate moments, that is why if relationships go sour it hurts so much.
Just be sure it’s not too early and be sure he will stick around even if sex is not on the table.
Rahul @iamrklahari
Aim should be please yourself not society, if you want it, go for it…
blueye10 @blueyeten10
If you need just do it ☺️
