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Anonymous

Is it legitimate to go for extra marital affair if you are not happy with your sex life in marriage ? Conscience says no!! What that feeling is you are missing something in life for no reason … only genuine thoughts appreciated, spammers can stay away !!

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Anonymous

Legitimate no, rest you decided what good for you…there are no moral.judgement here
. everybody to themselves

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What happened

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Anonymous

I agree… thanks for your thoughts :-)… we have actually talked lot about this and planned to go to doctor multiple times .: but believe me , it’s very difficult to make someone feel that something is not right … it’s a very emotional discussion every time … sometime you feel that you are hurting the other person just by conveying your dissatisfaction…but yes , we are trying to find solution by consulting doctors

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Anonymous

Thank you !!

Sanket @sanket

Physical intimacy is that one aspect of the marriage which could destroy all other aspects and eventually the marriage itself

Choose your path wisely. There are multiple paths ahead

Kiran Prasad @ravenp

Why do u feel extra marital affair helps? For that matter even a doctor. Everything is a state of mind. As you said its the conscience which you have to answer to. What is the underlying issue figure that out. Is it just sex or the feeling to get attention. How does your partner react to it when u mention? Before diving into it, why not role play with your partner

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Anonymous

We talk about it . She understands this and it’s just we don’t stretch it over days… I see her trying one day and then succumbing , may be due to tough days at work or whatever !! I hope we are able to find solution some day … on a normal days , I also feel good … it’s just , at times , that feeling of missing out something in life , that’s what depress me !

Kiran Prasad @ravenp

I know what you mean🙂. Was there and at times still go there, but haven’t we all sacrificed something sometime? There will be days and weeks infact getting out of this feeling might be a problem. If u are a person talking about conscience ask yourself this forget your partner, will you be a person who can watch yourself doing an act like that. Also ask yourself what do u mean by extramarital affairs, does it mean aone night stand or another woman altogether being available for your needs?🙂

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Anonymous

I don’t know may be what extra marital will mean to me … for sure, it will be about satisfying my needs … that will also come at cost of emotional trauma and sacrificing conscience … but some times I do feel , whether all this will matter when these years will go by and I will still be living with a grudge of not enjoying something as basic as sex …

Kiran Prasad @ravenp

There, you answered it yourself 🙂. Its just that you need to prove to yourself that you can do it. At the same time you need the approval and understanding of your loved one. Not sure how many of the morality upholders will advice you about things, but at the end of the day you need to prove to yourself more than others about what you could do. To answer it simply take into consideration if you even need to talk about it to anybody else or take approval from the person you love. if you wanna do it, keep it clear and come to the decision to keep emotions at bay.

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Anonymous

That’s what I think … these are such sensitive issues that we are even afraid to talk it to friends … coz what most people Girl/boy do is explaining their fantasy types life … just got this platform to express my thoughts anonymously! Many thanks for being a patient listener… not sure till when I will be venting out before taking any drastic step

Kiran Prasad @ravenp

Haha I agree. Venting helps in many ways. Not a problem at all listening, if it helps emotional stability

Kiran Prasad @ravenp

Its not about talking, it’s about doing. As i said before if u feel u can handle your conscience go ahead. Until u face it you won’t know what you would do.

Nardeep @nardeepji

your discussion puts me into a fix
…can anyone help answer for me…

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Anonymous

Even I could not find concrete answer… it’s all on what we want

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