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Anonymous

Is it bad to start losing feelings for your boyfriend?
We are dating since a year now but gradually I’m realising that he’s not the one for me because he doesn’t treat me the way he used to treat me earlier I told him this he said he’ll work on this but still I don’t find any changes, he doesn’t even appreciates me for anything as he used to but he says and his actions seems that he loves me but still I’ve stopped liking him.

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Anonymous

just bcz he doesnt treats you the way you want to be treated means that he doesntt treats you with evrything he has…

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Anonymous

Can you please elaborate

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Anonymous

you should end things with him. else you both will end up hurting.

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Anonymous

Don’t hurt him if you’re not ready to work on your relationship. Just part ways

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Anonymous

Leaving him will also hurt him, I’m losing feelings for him but I still want to be friends with him but after this I don’t think he’ll be ready for friendship even

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Anonymous

he might end up hating you but it’s okay to leave . its actually impossible for boys to be friend with someone whom they love or used to have feelings fr…

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Anonymous

Can say this is 100% true from personal experience ☕️💅

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Anonymous

yess , being boy i can tell :p

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Anonymous

Some Men never change themselves… Ykw I have told my bf one thing many times which he can easily change on himself… I didn’t ask for any star or moon… I kept giving him chances… But finally I got courage to break up with him… Behen either talk to him, clear everything or just leave him… Honestly saying they will never change

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Paradox Guy @paradoxguy431...

I am sorry to say this but your post triggers my PTSD, my gf broke up with me 2 years ago with similar reasoning. And still i am not able to cope up with the emotional trauma.
Are you sure you both are working together on your relationship before you end things i would suggest try everything that is positively possible. And yes there is no friendship when the relationship is over.
I hope you will be able to fix things in a good way for both of you

Why @whyamihere

Ok think about this.
If you don’t like him then small things will start annoying and then he’ll just turn into a head ache and then things turn toxic and ugly
It’s ok to lose feelings for each other
It’s not nice to be on the receiving end of it all but this happens

If you’re sure you don’t like him break up
If you’re unsure I suggest spending time apart.
You’d see if you miss him or not the…

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