Is it alright if i fall in love again ? Without even healing properly from the previous wounds (over that person though)? Cant i stop myself ? Is it alright if i am afraid to get hurt again ? Or is it even love at this stage ?
But the main question is why do you want to fall in love again? Was it not enough for you to understand in the first place that all these are temporarily there in your life.
it @illu
But what if a person doesn’t want to but cant stop himself or herself from falling in love ?
I think we can control our feelings by knowing what is right for us and what is not , it’s like doing something that you know for sure it’s going to harm you and you’re still doing it by imagining that it’s not in your control but the truth is that you know you’re going to get hurt. What you should do instead is cut them and do something good for yourself.
Exactly
One can hope right ? I am not sure if i will get hurt , i am just afraid
Its not necessarily temporary
My boy if you really love and all you wouldn’t be afraid, you’re afraid because the other person is unsure/doesn’t love with same passion as yours. Good luck 🤞if this love is what you need, I hope this works out for you. And if it doesn’t it’s not the end of world you’ll find more people in this long life.
Yes agreed on this
Its not like that … I have a past and things ended badly so i dont want either of us to get hurt …
Then you did not learn any lesson from your past yet if you will do same mistake again.
What ? Just narcissism ?
Seems like someone played you
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Did you fall in love with someone else? And what’s ur age??
Yes i did and i am not that young if you are thinking that
Then why are you hesitating now
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Exactly if u r not that young then u should know what not makes you regret… So if u think what u doing is not good then stop it bcoz don’t leave anyone to force you or control you
Exactly.
Past … I am afraid to get hurt or hurt that person …
I didn’t understand that
Then you are still not old or mature enough…a mature person knows whats good for him or not. That is the message
Ok got his message … And please stop being a bully
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
See leave about past and what u r doing now if u think it’s not wrong then u can continue it and if u think it’s wrong then stop it and tell other person u don’t like it and don’t hurt other person just be open to him like (just friends or not interested in relationship) so that he will be clear that how to be with you
Why would it be wrong … I am not playing games
Arey if u don’t mind can I know ur age? Anyway ur anonymous I don’t think it’s personal
I think you should take time to get over your ex and heal properly. Grieve. Speaking from personal experience, I was too scared to be alone so I jumped from one relationship to the next in order to avoid pain/heartbreak. I brought the baggage from old relationships into the new one. It was chaotic and toxic. So please heal first so you don’t hurt innocent people. I know I did and sure as hell regret it :(
How was your healing journey?
I am over my ex but healing is a different thing
