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Is Intimacy important in a relationship? Why?

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Yes, only if you are very sure of your partner. And if you guys really want to take a step forward in your relationship then it’s important.
As it creates trust and love.

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Anonymous
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What If both of the partners know they are only together for some fun and it’s okay if they separate?

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Mutually everything is fine, with transparency anything is normal

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Then that depends on you. If you want to try then it’s absolutely fine. It’s your choice.
But if you are hesitant and your partner is forcing you then please try to refrain from such people.
People become intimate to enjoy and nowdays many have one night stands. So it’s absolutely normal

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Can’t agree more! I see people are changing their bed partners as if they are changing clothes!

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Anonymous
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True! And nowadays it’s really normal! And I have heard people discussing how many body counts they had! Which is kind of pathetic to me!

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Well I’m personally against it.
For me intimacy is sacred. You exchange your energies. You exchange your power when you are intimate.
And I want to have a single girl and to have her whole energy and exchange my powers with hers.
Western culture has. Made today’s generation worse.

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I can’t agree with you more! And I was reading a book called Karma by Sadhguru, he mentions how powerful and sacred intimacy is that people are wasting on short term pleasure!

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Anonymous
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Absolutely true. People are changing partners like they are choosing their meals

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And the sad part is they are doing it with mutual agreement!

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True

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Because they don’t know what true love is supposed to be. What loyalty, respect, honesty means.
Bas halka sa kuch ho jaaye. Breakup and then. Doosra side banda/bandi ready hai. Within 24 hours they are in the next relationship.
Thoda to respect karo apne relationship ki

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Bohut shi bola, and jis chij ko humlg yahan pr highlight kr rhe wo aaj ki sacchai hai, but kisiko smjhane jaoge toh lgega gyan de rha bekar mein. And sabse buri baat se x , drink , body ikdam bekar bnana with junk food , sab krke log khudko cool smjhte hai.

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Shi bola bhai. And humlg jis chij ko yaha likh rhe wo sab aaj ki sacchai hai, but kisiko smjhao toh gyan lgega. And worst part consuming alco hol , having se x , making body weak , avoiding food , ye sab krke insan aajkl khud ko trendy and cool smjhta

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But i think sabse pehla attack sabko mila hai covid baad se, abhi kahin bhi ghumkr dekhlo, illne ss itna bdh gya jiska hisab nhi. Matlab choti sa kuch hota and insan survive nhi kr pata just cuz immune 0 hota. I guess kuch time m atleast health ka importance toh sabko smjh aa jayega. Baaki ye west rn culture kab normal hoga especially pyar ka jo majak bna hua hai ye nhi pta. Apan log toh sayad na dekh paaye

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Anonymous
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Relationship baat ki baat ha! At least unhe apni toh respect Karni chahiye! How can anyone be so comfortable to share them with anyone and everyone!

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Bhai ye pyaar nahi, just little pleasure to avoid reality!

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True

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Western culture hai… They see it as a point to brag about that so and so is my body count. I’ve done this many hook ups. They think its cool and people will give them respect and treat them as superstar.
They don’t even have self respect. And then they cry ki everyone is a dog. Everyone is toxic. Nahi bhaiya/didi sabse jyada toxic aap hi ho. Aapko nahi value na khud ki na pyaar ki. Bas aap body count badhao

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Very true! Ye western culture ne sabki laga di! Especially youths! It’s really hard to find someone who is authentic and has some moral values!

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Shivay @shivay2595

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Sach ab to bas aisa lagta hai ki bahut acchi kismat chaiye to get a good life partner. Warna zindagi to hell honi hi ΰ€Ήΰ₯ˆ.
Sorry to say this but reels made everything worse fake filters fake beauty standards exposing body. Unnecessary showing things and dancing with v u l g a r ity and they make those people there role models

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Pranav @pranav888

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I agree, but I believe agar aise log ha then hamare jaise bhi ha! It’s always a balance of positive and negative!

Sanket @sanket

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It is a essential part of it.

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