Is getting emotionally attached too soon a bad time? How to know when it is the right time to get attached and when not?

Yeah....he is not looking for a serious relationship or dating

Most of the time Getting attached is not in our control, if it is in your control this time then I would like to suggest you to get attached to someone only when you're pretty sure that the other person is on same platform as you are, it would make the attachment little easier to maintain or else it's gonna mess up bad

It is pretty messy. I feel like that person is exactly who i want in my life and  that person is probably not into me. Now i have to figure out how to let go

Confusion

After so long time , here i feel now ok with my surroundings and all i found someone here a very matured , but whenever i get attached with someone they start ruling on me , mybe i thought like this but they started changing in their behaviour,hope soo mera sochna galat ho is baari

Idk why tf I'm getting attached to him, I know it's never gonna work. He don't even like me but still what to do man

3am Thoughts

Human attachment suckssss😢

I don't have any deep attachment with anybody. Is that a problem?

Anxious Attachment

An anxious attachment style may present itself as the need for frequent reassurance that you are loved and that the other person is not about to abandon you. Those with an anxious attachment style may have grown up in an environment in which they did not feel safe that their caregivers would return, or one where they did not have access to consistent affection or responsiveness and availability was inconsistent.

Anxious attachments can show up in people-pleasing behaviours; struggles in expressing personal needs or avoidance of confrontation and conflict, a focus on meeting the needs of the partner to the detriment of one’s own personal needs. The constant focus on preventing abandonment can become a self-fullfilling prophecy, as the relentless need for reassurance can feel controlling to those who may have an avoidant attachment style, and may lead to conflict. The anxiously attached partner may build up resentment towards a partner who does not consistently provide that reassurance but may also feel unable to fully express their needs for fear of conflict.

The answer in these situations is neither a constant flow of reassurance, nor dismissing the needs and hoping they go away. Instead, the anxiously attached partner can practise creating a sense of safeness independently from their partner by building their sense of self and learning to soothe themselves. The partner can help this by providing more consistent connection without waiting for the other person to ask for it. So these are things we can work on both individually and as a couple.

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Anxiety

What do you do when your soul automatically gets attached to a person becoz of the same Vibe they give you.AND YOU aren't that much important to that person as some other close people are and u wanna get detach but it seems close to impossible?

I am really scared to get attached to anyone.
As in the  end it will really hurt .

Relationships

We attach. They accept. And then they leave everything change. is everything temporary? Why???????

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