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Anonymous

Is being a long distance bestie with a person you’ve never met okay?

Context: met a guy online, we had work mutuals. We live far apart, but he hmu and we clicked somehow, and kept talking

Normally I don’t entertain randos, men or women but the mutuals thing made me feel a bit safe

We became friends and best friends over time, flirting withe each other jokingly and making plans of meeting. Then Covid happened. Our timings were wrong and we couldn’t meet.
Had a fight, but patched up only to start seeing other people. Here’s where it got tricky
He didn’t tell me he was serious about the girl, while still continuing to banter with me like we used to yk?
Now he says it was innocent banter, but that was how’d we’d flirt too. Innocently. So no way for me to know if he was stringing me on, if this is just how equation was
Anyway I got mad. Broke things off. It’s been over a year, but I’ve not a connection like him

Was his behavior normal/okay? Was this connection normal/okay?

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@kai_06

It was to test that the thing he is doing will go further or not and 2nd the things would have gone ahead coz the distance issue would have come.

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Anonymous

Was he making relationship plans with you. And if not then I would say he thought he was just bantering like the old days. And maybe you were expecting something? It’s always better to keep communications clear otherwise these things tend to happen. And if he’s serious about this girl then I’m not sure if things would be the same between you two.

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Anonymous

Udk about relationship but we definitely had plans to meet and he told me he liked me several times. He also knew the connection we had was rare and I get the feeling he was putting me on the back burner because of the distance thing and our timing.

Like Holly and Michael from the office. Except I was Michal bc he was with someone else haha

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Anonymous

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous

What about Jan

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Anonymous

No Jan bro, storyline hi nhi hua

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Anonymous

If you’re Michael then it’s 2 ways timeline for you.

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Anonymous

It’s an analogy yooo chill

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Anonymous

He is just playing if he was serious he would have definitely made a plan to see you more often

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Anonymous

I don’t think so. He was the one who suggested meeting multiple times, but something or other came in the way
Then COVID happened

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Anonymous

Can you make a new thread? And not disturb me

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Anonymous

Didi ye randos shabd kitna… Ashleel lagta hai

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