Is anyone living with an abusive and or a dysfunctional family?
I am 27 and my family is very gaslighting…due to lack of finances and courage…the option i have is to live with them, ignore and accept it and bear their shit and in a few months get engaged. …
But how does the forgiveness come…when i look at my dad and mom and feel wrath, anger, hurt, betrayal for all they’ve done and said.
For their hyperness.
Can someone tell me that i’m not alone…
You are not alone. I’m 20, and my mother is a narcissistic with anger issues. And I too have to live with them, for some time at least. I don’t plan on staying here long… Would you believe my mother says we should start looking for a groom for you. I’m 20.
Like wtf.
I totally see you, hear you. It can be horrendous.
And very sabotaging too. i am currently going through it. I am 27, and my narc mom slams me that i am not adult bcoz i have not forgiven her for her narcissism and dysfunctional behaviour.
Like buddy, I’m 20. How can you say you are looking for a groom for me. Am I that big of an inconvenience for you that you can’t wait to get rid of me. It does bring me down. Luckily, I don’t give a damn🖕🏻.
Wow. How do you do that. I’m still grieving and in a maze and learning.
You are not alone. Recently turned 25 an going through same.
I realllllllllyyyy really hope and wish things get better for you, you can move out and no one can force to get hitched
Yes it’s worse in here. I just hope it gets better…see no hope as now
How are you holding up yourself
Wow…and i thought i was alone…
How is it going? I’m having lots of intrusive thoughts
chelsi @buzzedsoul
Ofcourse ur not I’m a victim of domestic violence my father has abandoned me whn i was born nd after six years my mom came back to him but everything get worse they fight so much he beats my mother nd abuses us nd now after 17 years everything is still same … I’m only 17 years old nd ur 27 ik uh can fight if i can… thn uh definitely can… i trust uh… nd please never blame urself for anything they did we don’t deserve this all ok? Things will work out for uh nd for me too… my father forced me to get enrolled in a shitty college where all my bullies for high school are going… it’s hard for me too… nd ik ur hurt frustrated depressed but trust me ur not alone… nd after reading ur thoughts I’m not alone too… we’ll fight this nd everything will be better soon… so be strong please… for me please so i can be sure that everything will be fine for me too…please set an example for me idk ur didi or bhaiya i guess didi don’t know but everything will be fine♥️
I am didi. How are you dealing with it now? For me it’s getting very difficult
Actually it’s really overwhelming for me too… It’s hard to live in such environment but I’m trying my best to leave this toxic environment as soon as possible nd I’m working towards it nd i hope in 3 years I’ll get out of here
