Introspection part 2 need help to know what is right and wrong?
My image is spoilt because I had slept with a married senior and my past I thought he is a good person and told him things he spread it to whole college that I trying to break his marriage and the college is laughing at me and plus he said I bitch about every person in college so they stopped talking to me only because of this one person who manipulated me so much that I almost spoilt my life and now my parents wants me to get married because of all this.but I want to do job and study but I don’t know I should continue here or find new place??? As this ppl will continue doing what they are doing and it will affect mental health.
Shashidhar @shashidhar117
Hi buddy!!
I would suggest to find new place n start new beginning. All rumours will definitely take toll on mental health for sure.
Have a better friend circle who motivates you n encourage you.
Ping me if you need some one to share feelings and emotions.
More strength to you 💪🏻
Hi
This place has good opportunity it’s difficult to find new place
What I dint have option of leaving then??
Shashidhar @shashidhar117
There will be definitely a better place and nothing comes above your mental health and peace.
If at all you are very much concerned about it, you can log a complaint of harassment on him and mental torture. Confront your parents about these rumours and stuff. Make them understand and marriage is not a solution for it. btw how young are you?
I am at marriage only 28
Shashidhar @shashidhar117
Good!! you have still so many options. Study further or try a good job at least don’t marry till you feel like getting married.
it’s of no use to get married because of parents pressure.
Hey dear… Definitely a new place is a better option. Start a fresh and marriage is not at all a solution for this. It will be a torture for you as well as to the person whom you will wed. Keep this in mind that nothing is more important than your inner peace.
If you want to remain at the same place, you should have to be more determined that people’s words are mere gossips that will fade away. I know it hurts a lot when you get to hear nonsense things from the who you consider as friends or colleagues. Stay away from such toxic people. Be in touch with the one who do not circulate these gossips to your ears. Strictly stay away from them. If no one wants to talk to you then remember they are not your true friends and you are here for your career not to pay heed to their entertainment.
More power to you and lots of love.
😇💕 thank you ya it’s difficult to stay in such environment where ppl want me to leave they are doing whatever possible they can by rumours etc it’s tiring for my mental health
