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@nevertheless

In start of the year I was doing pretty great, I thought things are finally turning for me the Covid hit and things started to get negative turn. I had a girlfriend and we kind of broke up because of the caste issue and she said she can handle her parents if I get really good degree and job, I finally got the degree in January 2020 but due to Covid I couldn’t get a proper job. She got married in March and I kind of fell into depression. I was slowly getting out of that she suddenly called me today and started saying her she hates her husband but wants to divorce him. Honestly I don’t have any problems with marrying her, but I don’t want my parents get into something like this, I still have feelings for her but I honestly also hate her. I just don’t know what to do. May be she is just playing with my mind.

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@ijustneedhelpdude

This is going to sound like a movie, but after all that I think she needs to win you back. You deserve better than her just changing her mind. She might be playing you, so just hold on a little. Talk to her and be nice but wait a bit before you marry her or anything. I hope it all works out for you! :)

@nevertheless

Hope this will have happy ending then, but thank you so much! 🥰

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Anonymous

I hear how painful that is through your words. I also know a bit about how that might feel because I too have been there. I struggled with that and I got through it. I know you will, too. There is hope.

If she felt that you weren’t good enough inspite of getting a degree and you were making efforts looking for a job (Covid isn’t on you) then she’s not the right one for you. And now that her marriage isn’t working out, she’s deciding to come running back into your arms isn’t a long term healthy solution for you either.

You are a good human being and sometimes we all need to hear this from time to time. Pace yourself and let her make attempts to win you back.

@nevertheless

Thanks you so much 🥰

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