In my first year of college…I met a person and we came in relationship and decided to keep it upto 4 years of college (coz of our families) and see if it can sustain as we were attracted to each other…
Now when only 3 months are left for completion of my college…we both are so happy with each other and don’t wanna leave each other…but again we think about how our families will not accept us…🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
What are we supposed to do?
How can you give up so easily. You need to put all in whether it’s for your career or relationship
Don’t give up easily!
We have decided to turn our relationship to best friends…bcoz that way we can stay together and focus on our career too…
Do u think we are doing right?
Idk. Will you not get distracted as best friends? If you are not able to focus on your career because of your partner then It’s a good thing. have a stable career and then no one can stop you from making your own decisions. think rationally before making any decision.
I hope the best for you!
hey friend don’t stress yourself … there’s always a solution to a problem…
as someone said here - First you 2 must secure a job (work on your career) it’s important…
yeah time will come when your or your partner’s parents will say ab shadi ki umra ho gayi hai aur tumhare liye rishte dekhne shuru kar denge fir tab unhe batana padega ki tum kisise pyar karte ho aur usise shadi karoge (ha but iske liye tum dono well settled hone chahiye)
or
if there isn’t a caste problem and you both have good jobs but still your families say that NO to LOVE marriage then you guys will have to make a plan and make it look like arrange marriage… (yeah here on now&me.com someone has successfully did it and told us )
or
I’m not encouraging you for this but agar kuch bhi karke maan hi nahi rahe gharwale aur tum dono ko kisi aur se shadhi karni hi nahi hai to tumhe ready rehna padega - I mean ghar chodke shadi karni padegi…
tum dono ke liye - aur ha bad me apne partner ko aaise mat bolna my family is more important for me (family yeh soch ke NO bolegi ki Love marriage hai society kya bolegi etc etc so unke ego ke liye agar tum apna pyar sacrifice kar doge to fir pyar hi kyu kiya…! )
dekho family ke paas solid aur logical reason hoga NO bolne ka to thik hai but just khud ke beliefs aur 4 log kya kahenge ye reason hoga to wo tumhar pyar khushi ke baare me nahi soch rahe hai… to tab tumhe pata hoga kya karna hai…
aur tum dono well settled hone chahiye kyu ki family ko ek bhi logical chance nahi dena hai ki kisi baat se reject kar sake… jaise ki JOB hi nahi hai etc
so tum dono well settle (job) ho jawo fir sab tumhare hi hath me hai…
ha last me itna hi kehna hai ki pyar kiya hai to last tak nibhana -ek misaal bano sabke liye… abhi tak nibhaya hai to aage bhi nibha sakte ho bas haar mat manna…
बहु बीती, थोड़ी रही, पल-पल गई बिहाई।
एक पलक के कारने, ना कलंक लग जाए।
All the best to u 2 for ur love life and career life…
