Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I’m worried my mother won’t accept me wearing a padded bra.
harley @lily_reisse
well if she doesn’t then oh well, at the end of the day what others think doesn’t matter as long as you are being you and are happy with yourself. and i’m always here if u need to talk abt it <3
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I feel like I won’t have a home soon.
shari i @shary
wear a padded bra without her knowing initially and if u feel like it is worth it explain it to your mom
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
She’d just say there’s nothing wrong with being flat and/or some other reason why I shouldn’t do this.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
She’s not the most accepting.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
How won’t she notice?
shari i @shary
where are you from
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Scotland
shari i @shary
tell me more about your mom
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
She pointed me to a source she used for “research”. Said source was very anti-transgender, using the public toilets as a big excuse why gender transitioning is bad.
shari i @shary
do you love her and how old are you?
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I don’t know and I’m 19 and I can’t travel.
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
I feel like she’s ripping me to pieces.
shari i @shary
this suggests u don’t love her right now and you are 19 maybe u ll love her when u are in your 30 s who knows right? soo just don’t break her heart even if she is breaking yours but do whatever u want to do in silence a away she doesn’t get hurt u can still be happy without hurting her
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
This doesn’t help
shari i @shary
have patience and u expect me to say something u want to hear we can villanise your mom but in the end it doesn’t matter this is about you u should take charge
Natalie_UK🏳️⚧... @cant
Except she always overpowers me and drowns out my arguments.