I’m supposed to be a lesbian and I currently have a girlfriend. I only ever had one boyfriend and I’m 24. I always said I was only straight for him but I still have so many fantasies about being with him. We still talk and my gf doesn’t know…I still want him so bad…In a perfect world, I’d be with him but things just didn’t work out in the end. I just started talking to him like a few months ago after no contact for 2 years. I asked if he wanted to catch up and he said he would rather do it in person. If i see him, do you think he also still has feelings for me??? am i walking into a revolving door if i see him?
Confusing, can’t help
thx
Where are you from?
Hey one pint of view of mine is maybe you like both girls and boys and if not maybe you were raised to to have a male figure as you partner and that’s why it’s bothering you maybe you just like him as a good friend and you had a relationship that’s bringing back the memories I think you should try to talk to your gf about it and maybe she understands your situation and help you through it and if idk if he has feelings for you or not maybe you should catch up and talk to him regarding this to it may clear lot of misunderstandings you have.
Well if you’re attracted towards him then maybe you aren’t a lesbian, maybe you’re bisexual rather. Whatever it is, if you still have feelings for him then you should really open up to your gf about it and tell her the truth and you can speak to her about your confusion regarding your sexuality as well. Having feelings for him isn’t wrong but don’t cheat on your gf or lead her on.
I think u should not take any step before talking things out with ur gf cause this is considered cheating
