Arman Dhillon @armankdhill...
I’m soo pressurized! I’m in 12 th and my future is based on the next 4 months. Everyone around me are just saying no. Le bass sone( means get good marks somehow) I’m not a kid who can study all day I’m just an average student and I never got above 80% in my whole life even I try my best and now I have to get above 92% somehow and I’m not seeing any spark ⚡️ ok light in dark room that will help me to get out of there ! How I’m gonna pull my self out even I’m trying super hard. Every single one is forcing me in my home and I feel like failure right now I have no motivation and I feel like how much I’ve studied I don’t remember anything from that everyone is saying one thing but no one is saying that it’s ok if didn’t got this no. Or you have a ability to achieve yo 90+ goal sometimes when things go beyond my ability I really want to end my life🥺
Arman Dhillon @armankdhill...
Thank you for making me feel it’s okay if I don’t achieve the target which people set for me 🙂
Pankaj Kumar @crazyguy3495
Ofcourse there is pressure on you and honestly in your age I face same kind of situations and I feel that we humans so much obsessed with results that we don’t see our potential or our strength we only see results either it is good or bad and if it is good than we push ourselves to next one and if we fail we always stay with a failure tag now I actually believe we appreciate our efforts no matter what is results good or bad and that is problem with our society and parents it is quite strange that they never ask what we actually wanted and it is simple your all energy and motivation sucked by a constant pressure that exactly you are facing now and it effect you mentally so this time you can empty your mind and think about simple thing what you can do this time maybe you are capable to 90% maybe not and actually it is never matter and this time matter only your efforts and that is only one thing you can do and no matter if you succeed or failed things remain same peoples remain same so you need to do your efforts and don’t listen anything else and look relax and just do your best and that is all this is first and last things that is in your own hands
Arman Dhillon @armankdhill...
Yeah! And thank you so much yo message make me feel confident 🙂
Simran @st1199
Hello!
Everyone pressurizes you to study hard and be on the Top even if you are not a Topper. We want you to be a topper anyhow without realizing what mental effect it could have on a child.
You don’t need to be somewhere you already know you can’t despite your hard work. If you say, after putting in 100% or maybe more than that you are able to score around 80, that’s completely fine and maybe try something else too despite academics. One should have a holistic profile then only too much into academics.
Give your best in whatever you do but not to the extent you have Suicidal Thoughts. As you said, if you are not able to achieve something more than what you want so you have this thought, it means you feel less of yourself and want to be on Top the same as your parents want. Being realistic and being unrealistic and trying to achieve something you know you are not able to will only make you feel more demotivated. Rather think, how should I try more, and if not, that’s okay too. My life is not the end but just a start after 12th standard.😀💯
Arman Dhillon @armankdhill...
Thank you 🥺💜 like after reading yo message it feels like now I can do anything really thank you soo much 🙂
Simran @st1199
Yes, you can do anything in life when you dedicate your time to it. Nothing is Impossible but I M POSSIBLE.
All the Best!✨💙
Hi.
Please take a deep breath and relax.
I understand how you feel right now… I just want to say despite what everyone’s saying just focus on yourself and your studies.
It’s hard but you can do this. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Take it day by day.
You will accomplish your goals.
Have faith. Believe in yourself.
Loads of love and hugs ✨
I believe in you ❤️
All the best.
Arman Dhillon @armankdhill...
🥺 thank you soo much for your kind words , blessings and believing in me 🥺♥️
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