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@heal

I’m so disturbed and tired of having mental breakdowns legit everyday . I was an extrovert but I now choose silence over everything . Two times I have tried writing about this but didn’t had enough guts to post. I started dating a guy who was my friend before as our families already knew eachother. It was the very first day when we were going to meet as a couple and he kissed me which I thought is fine would be out of love but the second day we met he started touching me everywhere , the main thing is I had already informed him that I don’t want a physical relationship as I had a very bad experience before but this boy didn’t bother about me at all and he took my hand and put it in his pants because I myself didn’t do that , asked for a handjob , asked for a blowjob when I said NO he started pushing me down and started forcing me . When I broke up with him he started to emotionally blackmail me , he used to go out and sit somewhere and his mom used to text me that her son has gone missing and even after whatever he has done to me I used to go, find him and used to send him home safe. I consider him as my lowest of the low because he sexually harassed me as a consequence of which I have stopped trusting people, I get scared at night , I get nightmares and on the other hand this boy don’t even consider all this as a valid reason for a breakup. He has got a permanent tattoo on his neck where he has written HATE , I guess he already knew that he deserves all the hate in this world.

Also , being in a l relationship dose not mean that you have got all the rights over eachother , if a partner says NO respect it. Not at all against the physical relationships but if someone is not comfortable please don’t force and stop thinking that everything might be out of love because sometimes it’s not love it’s only lust.

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Tanya @tanyaaraa

Hi, I hope you’re fine now. And I’m here if you want to talk about anything. Now, if you want any professional help for free. Like a free mental counseling session, do tell me. I think I’ll be able to help you. Other than that, we can talk about anything. Also, I think you did Great by taking a stand for yourself. You were right in every single scenario. Wish you only the best!

@heal

Thank you so much!!! Will text you if I need any help. Grateful for your support

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Tanya @tanyaaraa

I’m glad I could help.

@bubbly

Hey. I’m sorry you had go through it.
Idk if anyone has ever told you this, but I’m so proud of you for breaking up with him and being so strong.
Yes, you are right. Being in a relationship doesnt mean that the other person has all rights on you. Nope. And he is so toxic. Wtf? He blackmailed you after sexually harassing you.
Do you know you can report him to the police?? Cause i think he deserves to be behind the bars for emotionally and sexually hurting you.
Yep, there will a lot of trauma following you. Someone has violated your boundaries and body and its gonna hurt a lot.
But trust me, you are stronger than you know.
You were so brave to put everything down here.
You can fight this.
You can. Its okay to cry. Its okay to feel a lot of things you can’t explain.
And it is gonna be okay.
Listen, i suggest you talk to your mom. She might be angry at first but at the end of day, she’ll be there for you, to help you out.
And stay strong.
Never let him in again.
Heal. Heal. Heal in silence.
Your comeback will be stronger than your downfall girl, i just know it.
Sending you love❤️

@heal

So overwhelmed by this❤️❤️ thanks for uplifting me by your kind words. I’m surely not gonna leave him so easily and I’ve decided to bring up this issue infront of his family so that they give him right guidance and hopefully he changes his mind. Much love to you for being there

@bubbly

Am here for you.
And yes, thats brave. Do it.
Stay strong:)

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