I’m scared to show my true self to someone else cuz I’m scared that I might end up getting hurt from them I’m scared that they might hate me and I’m scared to share my past and say the mistakes I have done…I m just regretting it! I have a question is it bad to ask the money u paid for someone or frnd to pay u back?? yeah I accept I didn’t ask that person to pay me back before but is it really bad?? I’m regretting it totally! I need a answer is it bad??
You can just ask politely e" hey I am broke rn , I did helped you once , can you pay me back"
I asked politely that person was okay with it but was not okay with it all of a sudden… yeah I know I didn’t have patience idk why! then had a big fight don’t know why but I asked my friend to help me through this my frnd gave me this ideas but it ended up in a bad way and I was bad one in here and that person ended contact with me cuz I asked to pay me back I even explained why still that person ended contact with me and bitched about me every where
yeah I did get pissed also* but still I said in normal way!
That person sounds like a gold digger. They took your money and when you asked for it they got angry. Get rid of em
yeah I’m not in contact with em anymore
I can relate. I have been in the same situation for a year now. Although I feel I should have set my boundaries from the beginning, it’s tough even after I decided to set them now. People give their own definition of friendship from the movies and expect only us to sacrifice for them but those idiots never even care about following it. It high time we change this toxic definition of friendship. We have to grow together not kill each other, that Ain’t friendship that’s war. It’s not at all wrong to ask back for your money, which you gave in the first place with good intentions. Nothing Wrong!
ikrr!! I hate that very badly!!
