Im really confused 👀 Long story short: I confessed with a guy who has a gf. I know it sounds trashy but we both liked each other before the other girl appeared, we just could not be together for some reasons. Mostly because of me, at that time I didn’t know the feeling i had towards him was called love…
Anyways, it has been 2 weeks since I told him about my feelings. Yesterday he talked with me and said: I still love you but it can’t be the same love because i already have a gf. If I break up with her it will make me a bad person . At the same time, he said actually he is not that close with his gf. But the problem is, he is as attentive, as warm and expressive towards me as before - when we liked each other and he had no gf. If its not that kind of love anymore, why is he being like that? Trust me, friends are not expressing their love that way…
stranger @stranger_00
If he loves her then how he love you🙄??
If he loves her, then why is he acting like he still loves me? Why would he suddenly hug me or look right into my eye with such a warm look… It’s so difficult for me to think of how to act😔
In simple a person can’t love two people at a time for one he should something else that you need to decide
But him acting like that because he finds comfrot in me also makes me more sad at the same time, because that means he can’t understand that his actions make me fall in love with him even more…
I think I already am attached 🤧 I guess I really need to discuss it with him…
Thansk a lot friend!
Advise it is -
Sad truth for you - start ignoring him from now onwards!!
I wish I could get to that point when my feelings don’t control me and i will be strong enough to start doing that because I obviously am suffering
I understand and can feel it, but answer me, u want yourself to get more affected from this?
U really want to suffer all this stuff more?
I don’t butnitnis impossible to avoide him physically because we work together, which means we spend 9 hours a day together and we are work partners… Can you imagine how hard it must be to not get affected by someone whonyou have feelings for and that person is whole day with you
You knw why i told u to ignore…he will feel bad and will focus on his Gf and by the time u’ll also be stopped being affected, yes it isnt easy…but give it a try !
Let him go away and focus on one girl,
If he ever wanted you, he would tell her GF right?🙄
Ah right, there is also one more detail: he told me when he was starting his relationshio with his gf, he warned that girl that he still had feelings for me… Isn’t is freaking confusing??
See…u got the answer, start IGNORING for your betterment !
God bless ✨
Haha, well thanks for the advise! 🤗
U don’t seem to be experiences in “relationships”, are you?
Omg yes, I have 0 relationship experience, is it that obvious? Haha
Haha… welcome into the world where u will get chances of experiencing more things like this !
Good luck babe…
Just be you and that’s enough !!
I guess this relationships world is really harsh and cruel 🥺
Thanks 😔
Alys Remember the last line i wrote ! ✨
Thanks sweetie💕
I’m a guy but i like this word, thanks.
Also we can connect if u want.
Oh i apologize, but since you have no problem then it all right 🤗
🤗🤗
You wanna connect?
I see what you mean here… Thanks for this kind of explenation. It’s just very difficult for me to imagine having romantic feelings for two different people because I by my nature am extremaly loyal with someone I love, technically I dedicate myself to that person… But as you said, it is a matter of individuality
I see… Well then first I will give some time to him and myself too… I will try to talk with him when ready🙏🏻
Can understand that it’s kinda unbearable when u think of the person u loves appear to be clingy and more close to u all of a sudden… But I do feel bad for his gf too… Give him some time… Let him decide… And also keep yourselves calm too… Because its always better to love someone who loves us!
I also sometimes imagine myself on that gf’s place and feel even more unfomfortable but love is such an uncontrollable feeling, can’t help myself
I guess I can only wait as you said. Thanks mate!
Well it’s him who does not ignore me, he is the initiator…
I will try my best. . 😔
Hopefully one day I will be strong enough to move on🙏🏻
The fact tht he is not serious with tht girl…
And also wants to use you.
It’s very simple.
Thousand Leaf @thousand_le...
I know you already know what to do. Just distance yourself from him….
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