I’m not at feeling good from last few days… It’s just a worst feeling where I’m unable to sleep at night as my brain just keep on thinking even if I don’t what to think about anything there is no escape from this situation… I tried my best and still trying to stay calm but the thoughts that no one really cares for me and that no one is there for me when I need them is taking toll on me… I’m the person who is always available for everyone who needs me but when it comes to me there is no one around me who would ask me "how you feeling today? ", "how was your day? ", are you missing someone?, are you feeling better? , and do you want to talk to me?.. I just want to feel better and so I started searching for things online where I can talk to people who can make me feel better but then one of my friends said that it was wrong to talk to strangers… But what about how I’m feeling… No one cares about that? So I got this site and maybe I will find someone here who understands what I’m going through… Now that I have penned down my feelings here I’m feeling a bit better…
Tell us a bit about yourself bud!! What do you do, how old are you, how does your day to day look like
I’m 24 year old and preparing for competitive exams… My day starts with study and ends on study… In between I eat, sleep and help mom in daily chores… That’s all what I’m doing right now
Ohkay…what exams are you preparing for? Good for you to help your mom. Also are looking for a girlfriend or just some social interaction to fill up some void
Ishita @ishita
Buddy don’t feel alone. Overthinking is literally not the thing that your brain needs right now. Preparing for competitive exams in itself is a very rough period where you face failures a lot of times. I too suffered a lot because of overthinking everything. My suggestion is that you should replace negative thoughts. Like whenever you think of something bad try listening to music or try working out. I know it is difficult but you have to be there for yourself too when you are helping everybody else. Give yourself gifts try to spend time with nature. Be there for yourself and replace every negative thought.
Hey thanks for your reply… I’m trying to get out of these also no one overthinks purposely… Thanks for your thoughts and understanding
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Ishita @ishita
I understand you. Just be strong. You are stronger than you know. Because someone who overthinks this much and is still trying to make sense of life is beyond strong. Just stay strong 💪.
