I'm just here to share my story. 8 - 9 years back I have met one guy through some app. We talked daily either by messages or calls. We become so closer and one day he said he likes me, the thing is I too like him but I didn't exhibit the same because I'm afraid of my future. My parents won't agree to love marriage so I don't want to hurt him in future.
We continued to talk and I also mentioned him the same about what is in mind about future. We stopped talking with each other many times in between. The breaks are like from days to years. We met first time in the airport after 4 years of knowing each other and later he came to the place where I'm staying for job because I expressed my love to him. But I'm staying with my relative where he came to meet me without informing me. So my mind went to different thoughts.,,
I want him but I don't want to hurt him. So I decided to stop hurting him in future by hurting him now. We separated and stopped talking but my love for him is same till today..

Breakup

Hey Im falling for a guy who is still not over his ex,but we are speaking every night nicely 
I dunno where this will take me
Im little bit afraid

Anxiety

should i just leave him on delivered or like the message he been so dry and just saying “ok” 

3am Thoughts

He has been home for 5 days and we barely talked. Just few texts. Should I call him? 🥺 he never picked up my call when he is at home. But I so wanna talk, idk what to do. 

Frustration

Guys, I need your help. So there is this guy with whom I was kinda on a flirt stage but our flirt was on the grounds of genuine like of each other. Then for some reasons we could not be together and now he is with someone else. Before, he would express his feelings with gentle touching on my hair or face, nothing over the line. But now that he has a gf he still does those things sometimes. Like I'm so confused. Him being like that, makes me think of him the same way before which is wrong, i should not like or love him anymore. So I'm planning to tell him about this and ask him to stop it. But how should i explain it to him? I don't want to be harsh or anything but should I let him know that if his like that it effects my feelings? Or what.. How to say it. any idea? 

okay...so this feeling sucks....of having my abandonment and gaslighting by parents, bf and friends being triggered by a gentleman i just got physically intimate with and developed feelings for. 

1. Men are such creeps. Especially those divorced middle aged charming men..first they will flirt with you so much, enamour you and then after you get physically intimate and you develop a fondness for them, they stop giving bhav and treat you as invisible.

2. Then the lies they tell to get you. First they will tell they are safe nice good hearted guys, and they're oh-so-interested in you,..and then you see them fondling and getting close to other women just after a day.

WTF.

And 3-4 days earlier when this guy was trying woo me and get close to me, then he was all sweet, smiling and involving me...caring also.

and now, despite me having fever, looking sick, he is not even showing basic courtesy when we bump iinto each other(like living in the same premises)..likei am so off.

And now not only he treats me like invisble but also is so so pissed off for no reason.
ok i hope i come to terms with this...and make peace. and love myself enough. Anyways, he is travelling out of town for 10 days tomorrow onwards, so perhaps out of sight;out of mind ho jayega mere liye.

I'm woo-ed and developed this big crush on him too(which is normal)..and now it's like wtf. 
i wasn't prepared for this...so yeah
i hope i make and get peace. 
Then i will not have to be so anxious about seeing him and his snootyness n suddenly changed behaviour in 2 days, 


thanks..this feels lighter after sharing

Crush

That fucker is not replying me i just asked are you fine now. 
I heard he was ill or something i don't know whether it's  true or not, but i just asked are you fine.
Can't he normally reply yes or no.
Itna b kya male ego h.

Confusion

Today I am not sure how I am feeling.This is my update from a couple months ago on if I should tell him how I felt and this is how it went. The guy I fell in love with his name is Dan and he doesn't have the same feelings as me. Tbh he's older than me. He told me he feels weird about going out with me and doing certain things. That and he is extremely tall. Also so sexy. He also told me he doesn't want anything serious with me. Honestly I don't know what to think because all I feel is pain and sadness. Because I fell for him like a dummy. I fell so hard for him because he was so sexy to me. He is also multi talented , tall , and a great chef. The pain I currently feel is hurt. Because I thought there was some connection. I thought he loved me like I loved him or I thought he felt something for me. But he told me he just wants to be friends that hook up. Boy it hurts to know. That he also had been sleeping around with other women. I'll admit I slept with someone else when he didn't answer me. It happened once. Also I have had experiences with him and all I can say Is it will be hard for me to leave and not be friends. People tell me to ignore him like he ignores me. I text him everyday good morning and he doesn't text me for five days then responds. I can honestly say he doesn't care about my feelings towards him and doesn't care about me. It hurts and it hurts to sit here and think of everything I've done with him that I haven't experienced with  anyone else. I feel so sad to know he ignores me and I know he be on his phone. It hurts to know I mean nothing. It turned into me having the biggest crush to falling for a man who doesn't see me as anything to him. I will admit I love Dan I always will even though he will never love me back the same and that's okay because eventually I will end this heartbreaking friendship because I can't help but to be around him and wanna think of how sexy he is and how great he is in bed and in the kitchen. Also a good cuddler. But how I know he been sleeping around I had a intention when I was in his bedroom. He had a used condom in his master bedroom bathroom trash sitting on top. Had invited me over after I have not heard anything from him 🙄 and it was there and nothing else was in the trash. I still love him but man why does it hurt me so much 😭. All I wanted to do today was cry because he still is ignoring me. I wanna cry now because it hurts to type this and feel this pain and to think of him not answering makes me so sad but I had to write my feelings out because no one understands not even he will listen to my heart and right now it aches. 

Heyy! Hope you are doing good.
I have had a kind of rltnsp(not actually, but ya) with this since since last 2 years. In starting, he was sooo much into me, like soo much. He used to make such efforts to get me. He was chasing me then. Anyhow, after mnths of all this, he finally got me. Now it's been 2 or 3 months that i ain't able to feel the spark as if he's no more into me. Idk if it's like the time factor or genuinely he's not trying. I have tried to have cnvrstn with him about it 2 times. Things get sorted for like week or 2, again it's all same. I got commitment issues. I can't get tooo much into a person, like i am afraid of some sort of separation that may happen, so i distant myself there only. But this is one guy i had spend my maximum tym with. Things were so lovely when they started but it's all lost now. Don't know if he's engaged more into work or what. But i no more get excited to talk to him, there are no topics to talk about, no strong feelings to count on. Don't know if it'll get better and is just a matter of time and circumstances or smthng else. If anyone who has been at the same place, should i wait?

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