Turtle @turtle09
Im just feeling really low or like so many mixed emotions today . My heart beats 10x faster when i get the thought that I have to marry in arranged marriage. I am trying to make friends currently and I am really shy kinda person. I understand things slowly and before I realise my feelings what if we get married and stay in an unsuccessful marriage?!
Dear
Hi,
Hope so u are feeling better now
See worrying or taking stress is no solution
Whether arrange or love marriage
Chances of failure are there in both types of marriage
Infact in arrange
Family n parents are involved
They are more matured n make better decisions then us
So they will choose the best one only
Rest all this is matter of destiny
Joh hona hain woh toh hoga
Why to affect ur health behind it?
Why to increase ur heartbeat???
All such matters of heart work more on instincts
Have faith in god
U are such an amazing person
Only the good will happen with you.
Stay blessed stay happy.
Enjoy life now
Goodnight
Have a peaceful sleep.
Turtle @turtle09
Hey @kusum I am scared of uncertainty. If it doesn’t work out it wont. Right?! Lets see
Yes my dear future is always uncertain
N we all get anxious or think about it
But then present is in hand
Future isnot
So let us just try to like every moment of present without taking stress
Good luck.
I have the same fears and uncertainties as you. There are a few things that are super important,
1. Never say yes under pressure
2. Take enough time getting to know the person before saying yes. Being a shy person myself, I take a lot of time opening up too.
3. Always trust your instinct
Having said this, all marriages require effort and the effort has to come from both. There’ll be fights and arguments but it’ll all depend on how you handle it. Don’t worry too much about unsuccessful marriage, just make an attempt figuring out if the person is right for you and go for it with a the mindset that you will make it work.
