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Pavitra @pavitra2211

Hey don’t worry…it’s the weight…v gained it v can lose it to…just trying to spare 5-10min doing some exercise…no need to go for extreme one…start with simple one…it will take time…but something is always better than nothing ✌️

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Heyy buddy, I know how it feels to not be of the ideal weight and to blame yourself for this. I know how frustrating it is. But let me tell you the irony- you hate yourself because you’re “too fat” and I hated myself because I was “too thin”. My friend, no matter how much you weigh, society will find one of your physical flaws to attack you. This does not say anything about you. And ykw, let them. As long as you’re healthy and functioning fine, everyone who teases you CAN FUCK OFF. You’re PERFECT the way you are. And because its your body, you’re gonna do whatever the fuck you like. Please dont fall into this trap of hating yourself. It can bring no good to you. Love yourself the way you are. I promise you everything else will fade away and words will turn into air. Much love to you <3

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We’re all here for you buddy. And we want to see you happy :)))
Please take good care of yourself 💓

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Bhoomika @lostbutidkwhere

Heyy look your body is beautiful and just ignore what they say ik saying is easy but try? Don’t other people’s words affect yiur mind thats not FAIR 🙁 . BUT if you want to loose weight not for others but yourself, if yoy want yourself to be thin then start with small things like drinking warm water after waking up with few drops of lemon and start with 5 to 10 mins workout . Believe and love yourself.

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Darling I know how you feel. I have been through it in my school days. I know at this age when puberty is kicking in, u have the urge to look your best. Feels like everything revolves around this. It is a very common feeling. I even had a crush too. But he never even looked at me because I was fat n not so attractive like others he was interested in. Initially I don’t know to fight these feelings. But with the pain, I slowly whenever I get time, tried to dress up better. Started with some immature diets plans which really dint work. And school life got over. Fast forward 4 years we had a get together. Though I was not in contact with anybody, somehow through Facebook link I got a common request to be present in get together. I had those feelings of awkwardness when I left school n that still existed in my mind. But u know what? The effort which I had started had finally worked. I was an expert in knowing what to eat n not to eat and how to maintain weight. I looked slim n tall. Though I had dusky skin, my frequent visits to dermat gave me a clear skin n I looked attractive.Somehow I made my mind and went to the get together. And u know what happened? My crush looked less attractive to me. He had put on weight. Dint grow much tall after that. And now he was staring at me. But I seemed less interested.

This is the life of a teenager sweetly. What u r today will not be same tomorrow. You will change n grow drastically. These feelings u r going through will make u a better version of yourself. And all these infatuations will fade away once u reach your 20’s. Looks can be groomed with some efforts. Look at film stars and their childhood pics? Don’t u think they dint have any embarrassing moments. But when they grow up they learn to fix it. You too will. Only thing u cannot fix later if u give up now is your career. So give more importance to that. Rest u will learn anyways because u want to learn it.

All the very best to your beautiful future Sweetheart. Loads of love to you❤️

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