I'm in love with my best friend. And I told him. Turns out, he already knew but he says he values our friendship too much to risk getting into a relationship. Also, he likes someone else. I knew that. I'm okay with that. The only thing that makes me sad is that things will never be the same between us again. We will still be friends, but it'll be different... 

That's the tricky part. He's a really good friend and he really cares about me, just not in that way. If I stop talking to him, it'll break his heart :(

And if u keep going like this, won't your heart break? 

I don't know how to be just friends with someone I love, but I do know how to express love for someone - if you want her to feel loved, be there for her, talk to her and make her feel safe in friendship. And then, when she has moved on from the break up, tell her how you feel - it may mess up the friendship but not telling her will just keep hurting you all the time... That's what I did :)

use this to your advantage. I was in a similar place but I told him that I have already moved on from him. That way our friendship became back to normal but right now I m so stuck in it. Even if I want to I can't leave. If he doesn't reciprocate the same energy, move on. He's not worth it. 

I had been in a relationship since 2019 which was pretty good but ever since the lockdown began, it became an on and off thing. He ultimately decided to take a break from me for his exams and suggested me to do the same. I was fine with it too but I started getting insecure whether he would actually get back with me after exams cause it’s a span of 4 months gap. Moreover, I lost some of my closest friends too who I thought I could trust. So basically I ended up being alone all by myself. And seeing him be so productive, having so many people to hangout with and share his thoughts with , it hurts that I didn’t have the same. I gained weight, my mental health got worse, keep crying whenever I open my books to study, pity myself all the time. Would be really helpful if someone could drop suggestions to focus on myself 

Breakup

I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and we have had zero contact since 10 months. Meanwhile i used to talk to my senior, he was very supportive and sweet. I kind of fell for him but we haven't had any contact since last 6 months. Now that i see my ex enjoying in college, i feel bad. Moreover i have heard that he was after a girl, i felt more bad. Although i don't wanna get back with him, or ever talk to him or see him because he was very abusive (both physical and emotional) and toxic with me.

Overthinking

I’ve just found out the only reason he ever was in a relashonship with me was to use me for my body. I feel so disgusting and used, I feel like I don’t deserve love, he told everyone and all of our mutual friends. I was allready struggling to get over him and I feel like I’m back at square one wondering if our whole relashonship was a lie. I miss him so much but now I feel like I shouldn’t and I should be able to be over him now. But the truth is even after everything that came out about him after we ended it doesn’t matter because I still have so much love for him. And I can’t turn to everyone because they don’t understand where I’m coming from, because only I know that he was a good person. 

We have a long time relationship , a year back he go out of town to meet his relatives and there was a cousin of him , she is so irritating and tried to flirt with him . they go out for movie and dinner without let me know and click pictures together and they were so close in the pictures like a boyfriend girlfriend . after that I broke up with him. After 10 days he came back to me and said sorry . I forgive him after realising that he wont do the same mistake again but now he again wanted to go to that place to attend her ( The girl's ) wedding at anyhow. should I  let him go or not ? Or should I broke up again ? So confused .

3am Thoughts

WhT is up with ppl? My bf is in another country.  Parties all the time. I just asked when he would eb home so we can talk and he called names and said I was crazy. Am I? I didn't call and disturb him when he was out but just texted ro check when he would be home 




Anger Issues

so i broke up with this guy, my first ever love actually and we've been talking again but idk it seems like he doesn't really care about me and i know its so stupid just obsessing over one guy but theres just something about him. i know i can't change him but i want him to care about me i really do. being away from
him broke me and i fear that talking to him again may be toxic and i dont wanna be sad again. i dont even know if i ever stopped being sad tbh. 

One Sided Love

He said he told his mom I'm gonna visit their house this Sunday. His mom thinks that I'm already his girlfriend because we go out last time. But that was the time it's clear to me that everything's just because he needs a friend. So he told her he's only courting me. Then his mom asked him when did they break up and I tracked it. I know it's the week after our Team Building and one week of talking to each other. I searched for his ex's message and confirmed they broke up on Sept 11. It's still 7 days before 2 months of them breaking up.

Then he message me saying '2 months' then I got a bit lost. Ha? Did he read my mind? Then he said to look on the calendar. It's 4 today. It's been 2 months since we're talking and I got lost track of time because of what I was thinking earlier. I don't want to share this to him because I don't want to bring back the past. I'm just bothered of what his mother might think of me and him. Him jumping into a new relationship and me... Idk... It's me, hey, I'm the problem it's me (says TS)

He said his mom is not mad though.

Then I remember how allergic I am to guys who came from recent break ups. I leave right away after knowing that. But this is a different story I didn't know was coming.

Confusion

So I don't know in what mood I'm currently! Like I'm neither happy nor sad ..back then I lost my two favorite friends that I know I'll never get them back! Describing the one ...is just because he couldn't balance between me and his new friend.! I knewed him from like 8 months ..we used to talk much much on calls do video calls snap each other every now n then and suddenly he got into his new friend into so much that over time he forgot my emotions! I got an emotional breakdown a worse one..that I didn't expected! N now we are neither calling neither texting.... He says now he has his own attitude whenever people will come he'll be into them otherwise not ...last call he said that I should have taken the initiative to start over again but I really don't know if he's into it or I really should take initiative and what talk should I do with him..


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