i’m in a situation where i feel like i don’t belong, i may have friends and family members to talk to about my feelings but they wouldn’t understand how i feel so i jus keep them locked away until i can’t hold it anymore, im only 15 and i jus hate they way i am, the way i look, they way i do things, i fucking hate everything abt myself, friends and family call out my appearance and the way i dress, and the way i do things, but don’t worry it’s just a “joke” i don’t know how to fix myself at all… i may have a good life but at the end of the day i jus feel sad and angry at myself.
Sanu @xsanu
Why you giving head to this thought? Try to confine yourself to only you. If family does that then it’s terrible but still if you think you look bad though i don’t believe this because everyone is beautiful in their way and i mean it. If you feel low esteem then do things which will make you better in other terms like money or education or both. Apperance won’t matter if you have money and education which pays you money in future.
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pie 🥧 @sweetpie21
I hope you are doing okay now. I have been through this phase so I do understand your emotions… I won’t say things like just don’t thi k negative blah blah because I know it doesn’t work it didn’t work for me as well… So here are a few things I learned why I was this way with myself and how I got over it… I hope it helps 😊
1) Firstly I understood that these thoughts came from my inner trauma… Like I used to hate the way I looked because my closed ones … My frds my family made fun of me… I know teasing is normal but it really affects a person and because of this we always feel low in confidence… And yeah the society nowadays only care about looks and all that’s another reason why people are insecure nowadays.
2) On other hand I learned that loving myself and learning to be happy with myself was very imp… Imp than my career my frds my family and my love… I learned this after I got out of a toxic relationship … I lost myself after that and that’s when I realised I was just becoming what people wanted me to be not What I wanted.
3) The first step is accepting yourself… Look people will come and go frds love everybody else but if you don’t love yourself enough than you will just be stuck in this forever loop of being dependent on people for love, validation and acceptance.
4) I can’t explain much here but here are a few books I would love to recommend you
A. The Untethered soul
B. A new earth
C. The Homecoming
Hope this helps 😊
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