I’m in a relationship. On the other side my parents started searching for groom. I want to marry the person I love, so I have mentioned to this to my brother. My brother said to leave the relationship because it’s will hurt my parents as they can’t accept. One of the main reason is they have done love marriage and they had very bad backslash from society and family which they don’t want us to suffer. But I said to my brother that i can’t marry someone else. So he said if you want to marry that person then you need sacrifice many things and family. Everything won’t be same as old. And also he said if they say no I can’t force them because he can’t see them hurting themselves.
Now I’m in a confusion whether I should leave this person so that my parents won’t get hurt or I should hurt my parents so that we both won’t hurt
anuj @anujvohra
That’s a tricky situation…is the marriage out of cast? Has anyone in your cousins had a love marriage
Yes different caste
Nope no one had
anuj @anujvohra
Okay go ahead and speak with your parents.no harm in trying… figure out then decide.
I guess you have to talk with you parents about that person but make sure that person also love you back
Yes
Oo behen ladka well settled ni hai next person sahi option lag raha hai to ye tumhare upar hai to leave the boyfriend warna shadi ke liye Banda socially economically fit hai to marry him. Tumhara Bhai Suraj barjatya ki movie jitna dramatic ho raha hai. Shadi Karo hatao yaar kitni love marriage dekh li hai maine sab accept kar lete agar Banda set hai life me and if he can pay bills take care of you and responsibilities baki drame hone hain. Jao shadi Karo kaam khatam. Baki tumhara Mann stable ni tumme apni baat rakhne ki guts ni that’s your issue uske liye koi aur kya karega. Aatankwadi ni na hai ladka kha ni na jaega shadi karte hi. Family me bhi love marriage hai hi jhooth ka fuss bana rahe log agar koi dramatic ho raha to.
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Think ahead. You are aged 50, and you are sitting alone in a chair, looking back at last several yrs of your life. Will you heart feel good? Can it live with the pain of someone not being there?
Take it into account. If you marry your parents choice…still you can love that person. But be strong enough to forget, and let go of who you couldnt marry. Period.
Thanks yar. Actually I want to talk with my parents so that I won’t regret later that I didn’t kept any efforts to succeed this relationship even they agrees or not
If you really love the person and see your future with this person, and he also feels the same, tell your parents, if they refuse just tell them if you marry you will marry this person or you will remain single for life…no parent wont like thier kid to be single for long so they will eventually agree…
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Shoni @shoni
First decide whether whom u love the most.
That’s why I avoid relationships
Actually I avoided all my life because I don’t want to hurt anyone. I’m also not sure how I went to this unexpected
If the guy is confident of taking your responsibilities, then he should talk to your parents… that’s simple…if he is scared then no point in continuing… because he will be scared of many things in life…
