I'm in a long distance relationship . It's been more than 2 years to our relationship and more than 6 years to our friendship he is my bestfriend. We do have a lot of trust , understanding . But for a while now I don't think he puts much effort in relationship . He says he misses me but doesn't talk much as he is busy and goes to meet his friends . He doesn't even comes to meet me .when I told him this he says it will get fine once we meet but rn I just feel he is not giving me time as much he use to give me before. And I feel weird . 

Why is my boyfriend giving me time . Whenever we have an argument or fight I'm always the one go back to him . He doesn't usually do special gesture which I do expect and he knows too . He doesn't like to talk on calls . He said he would come to meet me but he didn't . Ik he loves me and cares about me but I feel all this small things are making me feel like he is going a little far from me

Girllll, please don't chase him . Make him understand how you are feeling in this and later both of you try to build this 
If he doesn't give a damn leave him girll

Boyfriend

My parents are from u.p. and living in rajasthan from many years so I born and did schooling and college here. My bf is marwari.he has huge family like this is my grandfather's brother's son.and many other type of relations.in our family we don't talk to these relatives.and these marwari people just dont want to understand other cultures and even don't admit their own flaws.when my bf told his family about me and that my parents are from u.p. his family said that u.p. people are so cunning.his father already asked me via his sister that am i really want to marry him or just playing.I mean.. with my experience these marwari are more cunning. Sometimes i think that if i marry him will i be ever can adjust in them.

Relationships

Met him again today at first he talked to me and at last when we met again he just said see you didn’t ask for my number or talked again and now I’m having anxiety maybe he doesn’t feel the same or maybe he has someone special already right😩

Anxiety

I met a guy few months back , initially he asked me about my past relationship but I was not comfortable that time as I had just met him. Later after few months when I was sure about him then I told him about my past.

My past was very complicated. He was my college friend and after college, we moved to different cities and then there was this lockdown for 2 years and we were working from home . As we were from different caste so there was no possibility of us getting married in future as my family is very strict about it and we knew it from start so we decided to end it. But as he was my friend so even after break up sometimes we used to connect over call .

After 2 years of break up, coincidentally we were in the same city and we decided to catch up and honestly just for dinner.

When I told this new guy about my past relationship, he started digging in to it that why did I hide it initially. The only reason I hid it is , I was not comfortable and I feel that someone's relationship is very personal and can't share it until you trust someone.

He said that he can't trust me as I hid it from him and also when he got to know about that I met him recently for dinner and all, he started fighting with me and made our relationship so toxic that it is almost over. 

I love this guy so much and didn't hide my relationship intentionally. He is not trying to understand. I know that I didn't do any wrong with him and I have always been loyal to this guy and love him so much. I am not sure how to make him understand. Can someone please tell me what should I do. 

I am exhausted now, everyday I call him and try to make him understand. Its been a month now, everytime he just says that he can't trust me and can't continue.

What should I do, should I wait for him or should I move on?

idk, i dont feel myself, i am not feeling happy. I have no friends, like not even anyone whom i  can talk to normally, except my boyfriend, who's not able to handle my problems anymore, he's feeling low as well . ik i am expecting a lot from him, but idk, i took a drop this year to prepare for an entrance, and he got into a college and is talking to new people, and i have no one. The manager of the place where i am taking coaching, used to text me a lot, like currently the classes are going online so i have met him only once with my parents, anyways, he used to text me normally and tired being friendly, i wasn't sure of what i should do, but then i started talking to him. Finally after somedays he said he has feelings for me and ofc i dint have any such thing for him, but i liked the fact that someone is giving me attention, because i need people to nag me text me continue and make me feel that they want to talk to me , only then i feel comfortable in talking, maybe because i have a rejection fear or whatever, that's why i haven't made a good friend after i got depressed in class 9, I recovered in class 11, but that changed me a hell lot, before that i had many friends and i was very happy i guess. so coming back to that sir, he used to make me feel so bsd about myself, id even know if he genuinely feel for me, but i dint want to stop talking because i felt i know atleast about someone other than my bf, who btw knows about this man, i have been clear to him about everything, he was ok with this, expect to when that sir made me feel shit about myself and fought with me. i even feared then that he wont help me with the things in class, but the fear isnt there now, its not like i only want to talk to him, its just i want to talk to someone, yesterday he said to stop talking if i dont feel anything for him, i said ok but idk i want to talk to him as a friend .

Friends

I’m really stressed. I’ve been in a relationship with a guy now for 3 years but I feel like I’ve been lying to myself. ever since I’ve been young I’ve always been attracted to girls (I’m female) and I know it deep down it’s just I didn’t want to accept it I guess. I really care for this guy too and i don’t want to hurt him because I know he genuinely loves me it’s just I don’t know if I can love him back. I really don’t know what to do anymore.

LGBTQ

So it happens like when you think other person would never do such a particular thing and they do exactly the same thing, it breaks you part. He came into my life when I was least thinking that I needed love to complete my life. He came in my life and loved that feeling of having that one special person in the life. I am a true believer of love. We came close, shared special moments , I used to wake up thinking of seeing him, we work together, we used to walk back home together (my fav part of the day) until he decided he does not wan to talk to me. From that day till date I have been facing sleepless nights, I am an introvert person I usually don't like to be around people that much, but now I spend most of the time with people who aren't my close friends, just to avoid any time I can get with myself. I never believed in online dating, but went on dates with random people. I cry randomly, usually I go to bed crying. This is not me I was a very optimistic person, but he has changed me I am doing things which I never believed in. And I don't know how to get myself back. I loved him so much, I am stuck with the memories I had with him. I thought a closure might help me that why he did what he did, but now I think what good can closure do, he will not say or do anything what would give me some relief.  If he wanted me in his life he could not have let this happen. And the worst part is I have to see him everyday and he pretends as if there was nothing between us ever. That kills me.

Breakup

Saw him after almost 2years... we are friends only from his side tho...I like him...so we talk almost daily...and I know him since college days but we weren't close that time...today we met...we had a interaction for may be 2minutes...and all I've been thinking about is this all night long...oh god this isn't right...we couldn't say anything when we saw eachother Idk may be we both were so nervous after seeing eachother all of a sudden...he went home and texted me like 10 or 11 times saying hiw nervous he was...and how he ruined the small interaction by saying nothing...now who's gonna tell him that here I am thinkin about him till late oh my god why is this happening..
I NEED TO CALM DOWN😭😭😭😭😭

3am Thoughts

I feel so lost. Everything in my life is going wrong. I am in a job where im unable to learn anything, i know i should quit but i dont know what for. I am not good at anything. I dont know how to figure it out. Everyday feels like a burden. Its like i know i have to work hard to learn but i dont feel like putting in the effort. My whole day just goes in a war between 2 voices in my head. One asking me to do something and the other resisting it by making me scroll my phone. Add to add to the misery im in a relationship where my partner is very different from me. I always end up feeling like i expect too much out of him where as he is happy and content and doesnt expect anything from me. I feel like checking for his messages all day long but he is okay even when i dont text him for hours. He says he trusts me that something genuine has come up thats why he did not expect me to talk to him , but i always suspect him because many a times i have seen him play games or watch tv rather than talking to me. Its not like he doesnt love me but he just doesnt give me the attention that i give him.I know i sound very immature and childish and attention seeking right now. But even though i know that i shouldnt be like this im unable to control this behaviour. I feel like im wasted , doomed. I am neither successful in my career nor in my relationship. Every morning i feel like a looser.Cannot stop scrolling, checking for messages, cannot meditate or go for a walk. I am unable to change myself. 

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