I’m in a bit complicated situation … I’m in love with a guy who loves my friend … The guy already got rejected by my friend and it’s pretty much one sided … they’re really good friends … She introduced me to that guy last December & we became like best friends within a couple of months … Like we used to hang out in the evening almost every day (our flats are very near to each other), have long calls at night regularly … I started falling for him which he had no clue of … I also thought of not telling him cause I know he loves someone else (though it’s one sided) and I’m like a 3rd person … One day for some reason he got a little suspicious about my feelings for him and ignored me for like 3-4 days … We talked that out … He said he didn’t wanted me to get hurt by falling for him cause it’s not gonna work now … I was so afraid of losing friendship that I told him I have no feelings for him … even after that I noticed he’s avoiding me a little … Like that old spark is missing somewhere … What should I do now??
All these are killing me inside day by day … The attachment grew so much that I cannot imagine leaving him …our college is going to end after 3 months and I know we’ll never be able to meet each other …
I’m getting depressed because of all this… Sometimes I feel like I’m nobody to him which hurts …
I need some advices …
Well i am in the first phase of your story, don’t what to do, cause I can’t express it to her because I always find one reason not to be after her but yet she is the closest friend and i am the closest friend to her after her female bestie, like 2nd priority among everyone here at University.
What do you suggest?
Iife is more complicated than mind so ,flow with life Talk him clearly what you want , everything that guy .
I have similar Situation but in my Situation I never talk her ,and Don’t say anything.
I regret why I can’t tell her that I love her so much. This is my life biggest mistake I ever made.
So , you can’t do that talk with that guys you love.
Best of luck .
Buddy buddy buddy…let me tell you that do what that’s scare you.
If you don’t tell your real feelings to him …to is baat ka regret tumhe hamesha lage ga ki me kabhi usse apne real feelings ke baare me kabhi bol hi nahi paayi.
And second situation ye hogi ki tumne agr bol diya to either you get rejected or accepted… And I can assure you as a boy , ki agr koi ladka kisi ko apna true friend manata h to vo apni bhi real feelings thumse share kare ga …and then you can discuss in detail with each other.
Aur apne fear ki vajeh se tumne nahi bola to ye confirm h ki tum usse lose kardoge.
I hope this will help you , aur jo bhi mene bola h apne person experience se bol raha hu
I’ve nothing else to lose buddy … He’s never gonna accept and I’m more than sure …
And if I confess on the other hand, I’ll lose him
To apne se shaanti se relax hoke ye pucho ki : confessions na karpane ka regret tum sehan kar paoge?