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Anonymous

I’m heartbroken. I’ve been in a relationship for over a year & I literally did everything for this guy. I’m someone who deals with anxiety & depression & so anytime I’ve been depressed & not behaving in a way he likes he says really hurtful things to me whereas when he gets in that zone I always act with kindness & love. Recently we got into an argument & I said either you continue on that argument or you keep me in your life. Which meant that I didn’t care about being right, I just wanted that argument to stop. He turned around and said he would rather pick the truth. This hurt me… I literally had to point it out to him that he should be apologising for what he just did and then I got a robotic sorry… our argument further escalated and he said a lot of things to me including mocking me for crying… I disconnected the phone & continued to cry… he called me twice & then he texted me saying he won’t call me unless I do. We’ve not spoken since, he is absolutely fine whereas my world feels like it’s crashing down. He’d rather stick to his ego than keep me in his life… and I’m done running after him… he does this all the time. I just hoped that I mattered but I guess not.

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Anonymous

Stay single for sometime…you need peace than fake love

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Anonymous

Talk to a counsellor

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Anonymous

Sounds like he doesn’t consider your feelings. Like you said, you support him when he’s down but he can’t do the same in return? That’s not okay. I would really consider letting a few days past and then speaking to him about this matter. Either he puts his shitty ego aside and supports you or he can leave your life. It’s not worth having someone that is not there for you in your worst moments. Sorry, next.

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Anonymous

Argh… I feel you!! I have been going through the same thing with the guy I been with for over a yr. The only thing I can say is that his maturity level is like a kid. U can’t stay with a man child like this. This will be like a cycle… He won’t change, it just will hurt u more. Do what is best for u.

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Anonymous

I think you need to gather yourself first… Come out of this relationship… it’s toxic

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