I’m having a toxic relationship with my mum, like I wish we could be the way we where, just being happy and all the good vibes again. But it’s always just screaming and verbal conflicts. But I love her way too much to get these kinda things between us , but I feel miserable at the same time. I’m rageing up each time with anger issues taking a troll… so I wanna fix this. What kills me more is, I haven’t seen her smile coz of me. And I’m working on that,
If you guy’s have anything to share on a perceptive side, I’m all ears :)
Kushagra @kushagra
Sometimes, mums are irritated due to some other factors and say something else like something bad related to you and probably that is creating verbal conflicts, i guess so in my opinion you have talk to her like literally ask her if she is facing some difficulty which is in background of her mind or provoking irrelevant argument between you two… Because responsibility of a child is a huge pressure on any mother so, many times it’s a huge weight on her shoulders… So better wake up some day before her make her something that she likes for example my mom likes tea prepare for her and talk genuinely, ask all the things which are irritating her and dissolve all conflicts, i guess it will help.
PS:I also cook on conflicting days😅
Hey me and mum argue about everything all the time bcoz parents don’t want us to take risk in life and bcoz we are all young we want to try things on our own and there intention are pure towards us and we need to keep this in mind. First don’t talk loudly bcoz that hurts after we think about it and make peace with her by saying that you respect her opinion and she also needs to do that.
