I’m got into arrange marriage but I’ve two choices
In place of me, who would you choose??..
Person A
Social - introvert but has great ability to makes friends (but all her surrounding loves her)
Education - just completed her high school
Nature - clever, manipulative, demanding
Physical - looks pretty, no skin problem and has thin body…
Perfection - she knows how to handle household work, know how to ride vehicle, fast in everything…
She travel a lot
Her parents are very Frank with her
She use social media
Has lots of secrets admires
Person B
Social - introvert (but all her surrounding ghost or ignore her)
Education - she is in medical field (MBBS, MD)
Nature - kind, caring, zero demands
Physical - looks pretty, but has little dark circles, tan, on skin, wear specs and has average body (not that thin, not that chubby but has natural curves on her body)…
Perfection - she knows how to handle any person in thier bad phase, supporting nature…
Minus point - she know how to handle Household but she is slow in her work, don’t know how to ride vehicle.
Occasionally travel (just in family trip nothing else)
Has spend her whole life in one room and in studies
She has very strict parents
She doesn’t use any social media
Has zero admires
Both has zero affairs
As a life partner who is best in between of them…
Tum khud kya ho?
As in which field?
I think these are good points to consider but who are you more comfortable spending time with, whose personality is more similar to yours, who do you feel more excited to talk to should be considered. Because marriage is much more than looks and jobs, it is a full time commitment if you want to have a successful marriage so you have to make sure that you don’t force yourself because no matter how hard she works or how good she looks, it will not be enough if you are not compatible or comfortable with her.
Purva Nandha @purva_nandha
According to my profession I am taking the decision and if I will be in your place I would definitely go with person 2 ,cuz same I was also in my room whole the time, I am also not thin or handsome one hence…
Bud, I think you should spend time with both of them. And after some time you will know whom you’re more comfortable with .
If it’s not possible ( due to arrange marriage) You should checkout your compatibility level with both of them. I mean, are you introvert or extrovert? Can you live with an introvert!? Or can you handle a needy girl? Consider Things like that.
Marriage is a really big decision so choose your partner carefully. Both are good at there own what matters is with whom you are comfortable and what type of a person you want in your life, who will be their with you in your tough times and with your family. The most important thing in a relationship according to me is how is a person with you and if the person can understand you, are you comfortable with that person so choose according to that. Keep everything in my mind and then choose. Choose with whom you will be comfortable and can share any stuff and can support you.
If i were you i would have gone for person 2 cause educated and understanding women will help you live your life in a much better way. Looks wouldn’t matter much later but personality will.
2nd without any doubt given your conditions. Sometime non talkative, slow, not having accounts and innocent looking girls are most dangerous one. But u have told both have no affairs then 2nd option is bestest.
