I’m going through so many things altogether just wanted to talk about it … I have been in a relationship for 6 months and every thing Is going well even in the lockdown … I haven’t met her yet but we are from same college … Now her parents are forcing her to look for a marriage and I am not ready for a long term commitment I’m just 23 haven’t completed my studies and I’m not sure that I can say yes after 3 years I’ll guarantee marry you … Because of that she is sad and think this is a time pass and we almost broke up broke up because of this reason … it’s… future I’m not saying I’ll run away but us give time … now I’m super sad and confused because of this … I feel that this might end soon so I’m not able to properly connect with her the way I did before this conversation… I know she don’t wanna leave me neither do I but I feel very much disconnected with her after this incident please can you give me some solutions
Riya Ghosh @riyaghosh
U should ask yourself first that whether you see her as only a gf or you want her to be ur wife as well. And everything depends on this question. Also when u will get the answer…let me know…i may help you more.
It’s just been a 6 months and it’s my first relationship … I am not really sure about this and think right now she is my gf and I’ll give best on that … and let’s see what future holds … I haven’t even met her …so much confusion is there
Thank you for your response … I feel disconnected because Im in a fear that she will leave me for someone who is settled …she has even told to her parents not to disturb her for this … All of this has made a rollercoaster of emotions and my anxiety is peeked … I feel every confused so as what will happen … She siad that she will not give up on me neither do I … But I feel very anxious right now