Shubham @memanticc
I’m going through really hard time. got played by someone who wanted me first. I literally gave zero interest in her in the beginning but after 6 being touch for more than 8 months I kinda got attached. now It feels like since I’ve confessed my feelings it’s only I who’s making effort to keep us together while she can’t even fight for me? this feeling kinda making me hate myself n I’m having self doubts also as if I were not good enough or am I not attractive now? I contemplated suicide. Idk what to do. I’ve blocked her from everywhere but I still do feel like she’ll come back one day n make all things alright.
what should I do
Hey don’t you even try to do sucide okay whatever your situation is its gonna be okay and to get attached to someone who wanted u first is what we all do and if she don’t see your worth that doesn’t make u worthless know your own worth boy u r still attractive before met her and after u met her u r just a normal human with normal feelings and is she don’t love you now then she is doing mistake but don’t your beautiful life because of her there is whole world out there waiting for u to explore and life is a gift from God we have to see our own worth and love ourselves for who we are if u don’t Love yourself nobody will okay? Just stay calm and know your worth and it’s okay to have hard time nothing lasta forever not even bad time there is so much blessings for u waiting out there just get through this hard times and u will find your blessings and peace
Shubham @memanticc
she even was in a relationship (I didn’t know about that) and used to hook up w her. I mean I saw her flaws that loyalty can’t be expected from her but still she never respected my time n space. and it’s obvious agar 6months gadhe se b baat krlo toh usse b attachment ho jayegi. I see all the reasons why she’s not the one but can’t Stop myself missing her. I put my phone on DND all the time, have blocked her from everywhere but still expect that she’d come back. Idk what to do Man
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
I cud relate to that… Hang in there brother i know how much it can affect how u view yourself. That self doubt is bound to creep in and guilt of saying Yes to her.
Shubham @memanticc
I literally had no interest in her be it physical or emotional. It’s like she forcefully made me attached to her
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
Ikr it’s like all she wanted was winning you over and then there’s nothing much left to do afterwards.
Shubham @memanticc
how to overcome this feeling
this hurts like hell
Mujtaba Hasan @m_hasan24
It’ll hurt, You’ll have to endure it until one day she won’t matter anymore.
The only thing you can do is accept it and start working on yourself, once you’ll start achieving things in life all this wud be in the background and won’t matter that much.
