I’m feeling weird and awkward today.
There is this guy I confessed my feelings few mnths back just a crush.
Yesterday he tried talking to me he said something I understood completely wrong and started apologizing. I felt so insecure and I just unfollowed and removed him from my INSTAGRAM AND SNAPCHAT.
God it was a disaster .
There went my shot with him.
What makes me sad is he never really get to meet the me. The real me. fun me.
He just saw the awkward me. That hurts.
I like him though. Idk if there will be any chance in future. I should have loosen up. I’m always so nervous and careful when I’m speaking with him. I dont like that feel so I just shut down totally.
What to do?
Omg u sound just like me. I go thru the same feeling of shame quite often. It sucks. Its been years n i still do experience this.
Its normal my friend.
But one thing that is helping me overcome it is to shift the focus from u to the person u are with.
It has helped me in a lot of situations. When u think of it as a comptetition where u need to impress the person it puts alot of pressure on people like us.
Just shift the focus ony to THEM. If he say something that puts u in a moment of embarassment or shame try to make it about them. Like if u felt embarassed for not understanding what they said instead of feeling ashamed urself try saying stuffs like omg why wouldnt u say that properly in the first place or ur bad at explaining things…in a playful way though,not asking to be rude. This will give time to shift ur focus from u to them, making u feel less akward about stuffs. Just roll with the punches girl. U just need to show that nothing gets u down. That confidemce is so relieving and mindblowing. Try that the next time 😉
That was quite insightful 😅♥️♥️thanks!❤❤
Haha glad u thot so🙆
