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I’m feeling very defeated. I have been trying to conceive for 8 months but nothing has happened. I feel very defeated… i hate not having control over my body. I know it will happen in good time but this process is hard. I also have anxiety so I’m trying not to have negative thoughts that are probably making it harder to conceive. It’s like a vicious circle…


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hearing you out has made me believe you are really strong women.
I believe everything will work out for you and your family.
Stay blessed , stay strong


Have faith in yourself and your love for your child who will soon be in your arms. Just remember how proud your child would feel listening to stories of how her mommy batteled so many thoughts and hurdles to bring it into the world. Just keep your faith for that smile. Whenever you feel anxious remember soon there’ll be a tiny hand whose tight grab on your fingers will kick out all your negativity and give you all smiles in the world :) <3