I’m feeling sad today, I wish that I could breakup.He has said that he will not marry me unless his elder brothers does so. One of his brothers lives in a foreign country.When he comes here, he will start a job, then he will get married.Do not know why it seems that all these will take a lot of time.After that the brother between them will get married, and then ours.My parents are old I have two brothers younger than me.My parents are waiting for my marriage.After that both of my brothers will get married. Do not know that there will be a lot of time in my marriage while waiting.Don’t know in which year my marriage will be done.My expectations are slowly decreasing.ाIt seems that until my marriage number comes my parents will not be there.I will not be able to bear this sorrow.I like this person very much, I do not want to leave also he neither me earn much to start a life together, Sometimes there is a desire that I get married to the parents’ choice and break up with him But I know this is not good to do with anyone.I am very confused thinking about my future.I feel very scared thinking about the life ahead.
Did you tell this to him?
Yes i told him He has told me clearly that he will not marry until his elder brother will do it.
I have not told him that I am thinking of a breakup.
I also feel that he has a life of his own and I should not force him too much. I’m in such a battle with myself and my thoughts
Well I think you should do this as soon as possible because you are just wasting your time in a relationship which has no future for you or him and you are simply just torturing yourself
If he doesn’t understand your situation, do you think there’s a point in delaying the action? Yours is a genuine reason and he should consider it. And if not then it’s time for you to act.
I feel the same…I will discuss this with him soon.
Hope it goes well